Is having “somebody to love” the most important thing in your life? Do you constantly believe that with “the right man” you would no longer feel depressed or lonely? Are you bored with “nice guys” who are open, honest, and dependable? If being in love means being in pain, this book was written for you. Therapist Robin Norwood describes loving too much as a pattern of thoughts and behavior, which certain women develop as a response to problems from childhood. Many women find themselves repeatedly drawn into unhappy and destructive relationships with men. They then struggle to make these doomed relationships work. This bestselling book takes a hard look at how powerfully addictive these unhealthy relationships are—but also gives a very specific program for recovery from the disease of loving too much.
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"This is a classic, and should be read by all women. It will open your eyes to the sad realities of life. That is, that certain men are dangerous to us; both physically, mentally and emotionally. We baby boomers have been brought up in a society that told us we were inferior to men. The author teaches us how to try new ways of thinking, how to protect ourselves, and how to heal from damaging relationships. Wonderful, insightful book!"
— Charlene (5 out of 5 stars)
“An extraordinary self-help book that reads like a page-turning thriller…This beautifully written, intelligent book can help women break the pattern of foolish love.”
— Los Angeles Times“A message so compelling that those readers who see themselves in the book may well be inspired to follow [Norwood’s] ten-point recovery plan…Norwood conveys the authority and sensitivity of a sister sufferer.”
— Philadelphia Inquirer“If you constantly find yourself loving men you want to change, Women Who Love Too Much is for you.”
— Houston Chronicle“Even if you’re not a woman who loves too much, the book is a reminder that we indeed make our lives and that love is supposed to be a happy event.”
— Boston Herald“How to distinguish between unwise loving and healthy loving is what Norwood sets out to do…Every woman, no matter how healthy her relationships with men may be, may see a bit of herself in this book.”
— Star Publications" This book provided me with quite a bit of insight on myself. Wish I read it 25 years ago. "
— Audrey, 2/16/2014" me provoco muchos sentimientos encontrados , pues me di cuenta del caos que hay en mi vida sentimental. Manejese con cuidado "
— Ariadna, 2/14/2014" If you ever wonder why things are not going the way the should be in all sorts of your relationships - read this book. Most likely you already know that you cannot give if you haven't taken before - but it is nice to reassure yourself that you are not the only one crazy and that it is the travel that matters. "
— Lidia, 1/25/2014" Recommend this book for any woman who feels they are in a relationship where the other person doesn't love them or has some sort of addiction. Not just drugs, alcohol but any addiction. "
— Debbie, 1/21/2014" Life changing indeed...however remember the lessons in which it teaches! "
— Kandace, 1/17/2014" All women should read this book! It would've helped me more 2 yrs ago but def reminded me if some things I still need to work on. "
— Julita, 1/15/2014" A good read for those who want to learn more abou themselves and relationships. "
— Libby, 12/30/2013" very helpful and enlightening for all women :) "
— ivette, 12/28/2013" This book helped so much in my recovery to regain my life back. For those who have struggled with paralysing unhealthy relationship, this might help. "
— Linda, 12/9/2013" this is my bible ^^ "
— Hilzie, 12/3/2013" This book is really an incredible resource for women who find themselves in a pattern of unhealthy relationships. She discusses the signs, the thought patterns, gives relevant examples, and explores ways to change. Highly recommend! "
— Leah, 11/30/2013" If you are ready to wake up and love yourself instead of hoping to find love in someone outside yourself...read this. "
— Lois, 10/31/2013" This book gave me some perspective into my own neurosis after a difficult breakup. I think most women will see a bit of themselves in this book. Provides some insights into why women choose emotionally unavailable men. "
— Sheri, 10/30/2013" Very insightful...a great book on co-dependency in all areas, I really enjoyed it and learned a lot from it. "
— Ann, 10/13/2013" The absolute Bible for women with a tendency to become co-dependent, love addicted, and obsessive in their relationships. "
— Lizz, 10/11/2013" This book turned my life around. REALLY good book for co-dependents "
— Annie, 10/4/2013" Very good book. "
— Benjamin, 9/30/2013" Another book I cant stand to read because its soooo true it hurts. It is good to know Im not crazy and not alone "
— Jenna, 9/23/2013" Helped me realize how important it is for me to focus on myself only until I can heal from my past. Made me realize how important Al-Anon will be for a while too. "
— Christine, 8/19/2013" I enjoyed finding out more about why I made the choices I did. Learning how to change the patterns. "
— Elaine, 8/18/2013" NLP has been co-opted by crazy people!!! NOOOOOO "
— Shaz, 7/12/2013" This book changed my attitudes to relationships. At the time of reading, I thought it had been written about me! It was a turning point for me. Sheds light on how we can re-enter the same destructive relationship with different partners without realising it. "
— Viv, 5/17/2013" This book saved my life! I have since bought it for others. "
— Itayi, 3/26/2013" Changed my life in a very positive way. "
— Natalya, 3/18/2013" This was a painful but lovely book. I identified with a lot of my own issues. Really great book. "
— Shivani, 3/13/2013" This book kind of saved my life. Highly recommend it to men and women who struggle in their relationships and fear they may have codependency issues. "
— Lindsay, 1/21/2013" I found the first chapter really interesting, but the rest was a series of incredibly repetitive case studies that were incredibly dull. I got the point from the first chapter and there didn't seem to be much reason to keep reading it after that. "
— Laura, 12/27/2012Robin Norwood is the author of Letters from Women Who Love Too Much, Daily Meditations for Women Who Love Too Much, and Why? A Guide to Answering Life’s Toughest Questions. A former marriage, family, and child therapist specializing in addiction, she lives in California.
Ellen Archer has narrated numerous audiobooks and has won several AudioFile Earphones Awards, as well as the prestigious Audie Award for best narration. She is an actress, and singer with a degree in opera performance from the Boston Conservatory. She has performed extensively on the New York stage and in regional theaters.