He sends you flowers when what you really want is time to talk. She gives you a hug when what you really need is a home-cooked meal! The problem isn’t your love— it’s your love language!
Dr. Gary Chapman reveals how different people express love in different ways. Here, at last, is the key to understanding each other’s unique needs. Apply the right principles, learn the right language, and soon you’ll know the profound satisfaction and joy of being able to express your love—and feeling truly loved in return.
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"Wonderfully short executive summary book! Great if you have read the full size book previously, but have forgotten much. It is also short enough to attract those who 'hate to read', but who still want some new romantic tools in their pockets. Very concise, yet informative...I highly recommend it."
— Andeanna (5 out of 5 stars)
" This was a quick read and I really loved it! I've read several marriage and relationship improvement books but found his material very original and fresh. It gave me good ideas for my own marriage! I definitely recommend it! "
— Chelsea, 2/17/2014" I guess this is the condensed version of the book I thought I ordered. It was ok, not as good as I heard it was. "
— Kory, 2/10/2014" Unfortunatly, each one of these books is the same just a change of words. "
— Amy, 1/31/2014" It was a good informational book. "
— Rebecca, 1/20/2014" I read this AFTER having read the full length version. It was a concise review for me & would serve as a good introduction to readers new to The Five Love Languages collection. "
— Amy, 1/19/2014" This was interesting. My husband and I read it together and we learned a few things about each other. "
— Rachel, 1/19/2014" Now I want to learn more. "
— Vicki, 1/18/2014" nice advice & I'll give it a try, but there's nothing like sarcasm to get your deep feelings across to the special companion in your life... "
— Greg, 1/15/2014" This book gives you pause to think about those who you care about the most and what you do to show that care to them. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn how different people respond to different demonstrations of love and to show it to them. "
— Amy, 1/15/2014" Good ideas and easy read. Good insights about couples dynamics. "
— Fumiko, 1/1/2014" At only 78 pages, this is a quick read about communication and relationships. Ever wonder why you and you and your partner are fighting? Maybe it's becuase you speak different love languages. "
— Mira, 12/21/2013" Just finished this book and really enjoyed it, even went out and bought my husband the "man's" version:) "
— Veronica, 12/10/2013" Great book! Since reading it, whenever situation needs it, I can tell my husband that my love language is Acts of Service with Words of Affirmation/Quality Time not far behind (which is all true, BTW). ;0) On the serious note, the book is to understand and accept other people better. "
— Lana, 12/6/2013" I ordered this not realizing it was a condensed version of the book! Woops! I would like to read the full version some day - I think he definately has a good concept. "
— Susan, 12/4/2013" I loved this book. It was a good read, and helped me to understand myself better, and the people in my life. "
— Cynthia, 4/16/2013" It was great to discover my love language...no wonder I'm divorced! I will know for the next one though and I have recommended this book to all my married friends! "
— D., 4/9/2013" Awesome book! I highly reccomend it. I finally understand the reasons why people do the things they do for you, even though you don't "speak" their love language. "
— Nohelia, 3/1/2013" A very interesting book, and a very quick read. I finished the entire thing in a couple of hours. It gave me some things to think about and will probably change the way that I interact with some people. It wasn't earth-shattering, but I'd recommend it. "
— Rachael, 9/20/2012" Book was very informational. I actually read the regular book. Not the shorter version. It's a good tool to use to put into work and/or save a failing relationship. "
— Thumper83, 6/23/2012" This book is pretty helpful for my marriage, we are only a little over a year into it and this is a great book to keep our relationship strong. "
— Autumn, 4/21/2012" Think this will be a life changing one.... "
— Lauren, 2/18/2012" I loved it. My brother gave me the book, and I have it somewhere in the house, but can't find it. I would love to read it again. It helps me in my marriage and everyday life. "
— Felicia, 2/17/2012" A must read. No matter your staus. Single, married, divorced. You will learn something about yourself. "
— Tara, 1/29/2012" Interesting. I liked it. It's good to think about how other's express love. "
— Peggy, 12/15/2011" surprisingly good, a good way to start thinking about how to love you loved ones better. "
— Manal, 12/1/2011" I am looking forward to completing this short book that I've finally purchased. Stay tuned... "
— Bob, 10/30/2011" Deffinitly gives you something to think about. Although would be more effective if I could get my husband to read it. I asked, but it's not going to happen lol. "
— Jess, 8/28/2011" A brief synopsis of the book The Five Love Languages "
— Angie, 8/26/2011" Wonderful book! Chapman writes that there are five languages of love with many dialects. If we figure out what our loved one's language is and, in turn, they learn ours, communication is "spot on" and life is much more enjoyable. Great book! "
— Sandy, 7/6/2011" Wonderful book! Chapman writes that there are five languages of love with many dialects. If we figure out what our loved one's language is and, in turn, they learn ours, communication is "spot on" and life is much more enjoyable. Great book! "
— Sandy, 5/16/2011" incredible book, has helped in my love life, in family relationships, as well as work relationships.just amazing. "
— Angela, 4/25/2011" An excellent reminder of the five love languages, but the book did seem rather clipped. I think I would have preferred to listen to the full version. Nevertheless, the content is excellent, and for the $2 I paid for it, I feel I got my money's worth. "
— Danielle, 3/26/2011" Very easy read for anyone. Great for all relationships. "
— Kaylene, 3/11/2011" <br/>Good book that explains the many different ways we love in a given relationship. <br/>read this book and fill up your "love tank"! "
— Wanda, 3/4/2011" His concept makes sense. After reading it my husband and I realized how we weren't recognizing each others expressions of love properly. Several years after reading it, it's still not uncommon for us to refer to our love banks when we are feeling low. Excellent book "
— Elissa, 2/13/2011" Read to find your own love language and your partner's. It works! "
— Michelle, 2/2/2011" I love, love, loved this book! My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 1/2 years and we read this book together. It really helped us understand each other and I am excited to read the one for kids. "
— Bonnie, 2/1/2011" A little cheesy for my taste. I think I will appreciate it more later in life. "
— Karli, 1/26/2011" This is very insightful. Liked it a lot. "
— Brandon, 1/19/2011" My hubby and I picked this book up with a gift card given to us at our wedding. We'd take turns reading chapter. Very good. I highly recommend reading this book with your spouse! "
— Katie, 1/16/2011" Just finished this book and really enjoyed it, even went out and bought my husband the "man's" version:) "
— Veronica, 12/20/2010" Think this will be a life changing one.... "
— Lauren, 12/16/2010" Interesting, really quick read that everyone in a serious relationship could probably benefit from. "
— Cara, 12/12/2010Gary Chapman, PhD, is the author of the #1 New York Times bestselling The 5 Love Languages. With over thirty years of counseling experience, he has the uncanny ability to hold a mirror up to human behavior, showing readers not just where they go wrong, but also how to grow and move forward. Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University.
Chris Fabry is the author of more than thirty books, as well as a former broadcaster in Christian radio. His radio credits include Focus on the Family, Love Worth Finding, and Reaching Your World with Luis Palau. He and his wife, Andrea, live in Colorado with their nine children.