Button-pushers come in all shapes and sizes, but they have one thing in common: Their behavior drives us crazy and makes us dream of ways to escape the mess we're in.
The person who pushes your buttons is likely someone who matters to you – a spouse, a parent, a boss, a fellow church member. Almost always this difficult person is connected to you by blood, love, faith, or money, so you can't just end the relationship without causing pain and upheaval in your life.
Our friends and today's culture will often advise us to abandon such relationships quickly – to end this unpleasant chapter and get on with our lives. Psychologist and author Dr. John Townsend disagrees, "Your button-pusher is not someone you would easily and casually leave. You are intertwined at many levels. It is worth the trouble to take a look at the ways the relationship you had, and want, can be revived and reborn."
In this easy-to-read book he offers
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"OUTSTANDING!!! I'm buying this for several of my friends who are married to MAJOR Button Pushers!!! Wish I had read this years ago. Thanking God my husband in NOT my BUTTON PUSHER! Trying & praying very hard NOT to be ANYONE'S Button Pusher myself."
— Kathy (5 out of 5 stars)
" Another solid effort by 1/2 of the successful Cloud / Townsend writing team. Great advice here. "
— Karen, 8/9/2013" oh boy...don't even get me started...I hope to learn much from this about myself, faith, surrender and boundaries "
— Melanie, 5/22/2013" Keen insight that teaches one how to look inside a situation and navigate within personal boundaries that protect. "
— Paulette, 5/10/2011" great book for dealing with challenging people :) "
— Cathy, 2/25/2011" Too much religion, not enough substance on how to deal with the asshole, bipolar, belligerent ex husband. "
— MerD, 1/13/2011" oh boy...don't even get me started...I hope to learn much from this about myself, faith, surrender and boundaries "
— Melanie, 6/25/2010" Keen insight that teaches one how to look inside a situation and navigate within personal boundaries that protect. "
— Paulette, 2/5/2010" great book for dealing with challenging people :) "
— Cathy, 5/4/2009Dr. John Townsend is a popular speaker, psychologist, cohost of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounder of the Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. He is the author of many books, as well as coauthor of the 2003 Retailers Choice Award–winning God Will Make a Way and the Gold Medallion Award–winning Boundaries (over one million copies sold). He maintains a private practice in Newport Beach, California, and lives with his wife and children in Los Angeles.