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Called “brave and riveting” by Jeannette Walls, Deborah Feldman’s New York Times bestselling memoir of escaping from a strict Hasidic community includes a new afterword by the author detailing the circumstances of her life after leaving her husband and forging new beginnings for herself and her young son.
As a member of the strictly religious Satmar sect of Hasidic Judaism, Deborah Feldman grew up under a code of relentlessly enforced customs governing everything from what she could wear and to whom she could speak to what she was allowed to read. Yet in spite of her repressive upbringing, Deborah grew into an independent-minded young woman whose stolen moments reading about the empowered literary characters of Jane Austen and Louisa May Alcott helped her to imagine an alternative way of life among the skyscrapers of Manhattan. Trapped as a teenager in a sexually and emotionally dysfunctional marriage to a man she barely knew, the tension between Deborah’s desires and her responsibilities as a good Satmar girl grew more explosive until she gave birth at nineteen and realized that, regardless of the obstacles, she would have to forge a path—for herself and her son—to happiness and freedom.
Remarkable and fascinating, this “sensitive and memorable coming-of-age story” (Pittsburgh Post-Gazette) is one you won’t be able to put down.
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"As a member of the strictly religious Satmar sect of Hasidic Judaism, Feldmen grew up under a relentlessly enforced set of strict religious customs including clothing she could wear, whom she could talk to, days she could do particular things, books she could read and things she could eat. Despite all of these things, Feldman evolved into an independent woman who dreamed of another life. Finding herself locked in a sexually and emotionally difficult marriage to a man she barely knew, that produced a child, Feldman knew that regardless of the obstacles in her path, she would need to forge a path that would ultimately lead to freedom and happiness. This is a very good book. "
— Julie (5 out of 5 stars)
“A brave, riveting account of her journey. Unorthodox is harrowing, yet triumphant.”
— Jeannette Walls, New York Times bestselling author“[Feldman’s] matter-of-fact style masks some penetrating insights.”
— New York Times“An unprecedented view into a Hasidic community that few outsiders ever experience.”
— Minneapolis Star-Tribune“Eloquent, appealing, and just emotional enough.”
— Huffington Post“Riveting… extraordinary.”
— Marie Claire" There is nothing special about this book, there were many others fictions and non-fictions that describe the narrow and suffocating life in close religious community. The author believes herself to be rebel, because she left the group. I remember reading books by Naomi Ragen on similar subject, but her being a very good writer, the effect is much bigger "
— Vicky, 2/19/2014" I found this book quite salacious in its descriptions of the marital bed and Hasidic customs of culturally denigrating women. The first part of the book is quite boring with endless descriptions of the grandmothers cooking etc. I wanted to hear more about the mother who left but the author is so immature and self involved the mothers story was never fleshed out. "
— Panda, 2/14/2014" I read this book based on a review I saw on television and, after waiting some time to get the book through my local library, I found it somewhat boring and a disappointment. In my opinion the book was written as a means to fund the author's leaving her Hasidic family. The book does provide some interesting information on the Hasidic Jews. "
— Janet, 2/11/2014" This book is an easy read, although very disturbing it may be a wake up call for those who follow religious cult blindly. "
— Vivien, 1/26/2014" A riveting read... but it's not clear whether her story is entirely true. "
— Rachel, 1/14/2014" I think there are better books on this topic "
— Sharyn, 1/6/2014" Wow! Def'ly a book that makes you cheer at the end. Worth the read. "
— Jodi, 1/1/2014" Could not put this book down. Read it while on vacation very quickly. Amazing story of how a women broke away from the strict Hasdic jewish religious life in Brooklyn. What is amazing is that she just left this life a few years ago - 2009-2010. Very powerful. "
— Joanne, 12/29/2013" The book was very poorly written.... and it took her 150 pages before she wrote anything interesting to me. I did learn a lot about the Hasidic but I'm questioning whether or not it's a realistic and true source. What did you think? "
— Lorraine, 12/22/2013" couldn't get into this book, gave up on it after a few chapters "
— Sarah, 12/21/2013Deborah Feldman is the author of the New York Times bestselling memoir, Unorthodox: The Scandalous Reflection of My Hasidic Roots. She was born and raised in the Hasidic community of Williamsburg in Brooklyn, New York. A graduate of Sarah Lawrence College, she lives in New York City with her son.
Rachel Botchan holds a BFA from NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts and is a member of the Pearl Theater Company in New York. She and her husband live in New York City.
Cassandra Campbell has won multiple Audie Awards, Earphones Awards, and the prestigious Odyssey Award for narration. She was been named a “Best Voice” by AudioFile magazine and in 2018 was inducted in Audible’s inaugural Narrator Hall of Fame.