In his extraordinary new audiobook, Terrence Real, distinguished therapist and bestselling author, presents a long overdue message that women need to hear: You aren’t crazy–you’re right! Women have changed in the last twenty-five years–they have become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. They don’t know how to respond to frustrated partners who just want their mates to show up and grow up. Enter the good news: In this revolutionary audiobook, Real offers women a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship that they desire and deserve. He guides you through the process of relationship repair with exercises that you can do alone or with your partner. We have never wanted so much from our relationships as we do today. More than any other generation, we yearn for our mates to be lifelong friends and lovers. The New Rules of Marriage shows us how to fulfill this courageous and uncompromising new vision.
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"This book is a really insightful look at how most people's desires for marriage are different from their parents' and so require different skills that what their families were able to model. Has lots of exercises for practical application. "
— Susie (5 out of 5 stars)
" This one is a bit redundant. I fear that Dr. Real is turning into a "one trick pony" "
— Russell, 7/28/2013" The first two chapters were kind of off-putting for me, but the remainder of the book was very relevant and helpful. I plan to read it again and do the exercise with each chapter. "
— Tina, 3/6/2013" This book is brilliant because it's not a self-help manual, it's not a save-my-relationship manual, it's just a guide to becoming a better, more thoughtful, responsive communicator. "
— Shannon, 1/3/2013" Although it identifies some personality types that I didn't think of before - I don't buy his whole theory. He seems to feel that there can be atonement that is rather simplistic. Still not done but taking it in stride with other books. "
— Anna, 12/30/2012" There were many great ideas in this book. I recommend it to my marriage class. "
— Georgia, 7/12/2012" Very user-friendly guide to improving intimacy. "
— Chris, 5/21/2012" This will be the wedding gift that I would give to any newly married couple. Good relationship advice for anyone though. "
— Nicko, 4/30/2012" This is a great book for anyone in a relationship wether things are well or falling apart. It has even helped me be a better friend and mother. Love it' "
— Ronya, 5/11/2011" Easy to understand what is not working in relationships. Great, simple tools for making relationships better. Challenges a person to look at how they contribute to relationship difficulties. "
— Robin, 6/20/2010" This book is fantastic -and I don't say that just becasue my boss wrote it! It has some very good thinking on what it means to be married these days - especially for those of us who want it ALL. A good read for all women, I think! "
— Susan, 3/30/2010" A must for any married couple. Love it! Easy to read with practical advice and exercises. "
— Christine, 3/19/2010" This book is a really insightful look at how most people's desires for marriage are different from their parents' and so require different skills that what their families were able to model. Has lots of exercises for practical application. "
— Susie, 1/10/2010" This book is brilliant because it's not a self-help manual, it's not a save-my-relationship manual, it's just a guide to becoming a better, more thoughtful, responsive communicator. "
— Shannon, 10/18/2009" The first two chapters were kind of off-putting for me, but the remainder of the book was very relevant and helpful. I plan to read it again and do the exercise with each chapter. "
— Tina, 10/7/2009" Easy to understand what is not working in relationships. Great, simple tools for making relationships better. Challenges a person to look at how they contribute to relationship difficulties. "
— Robin, 5/12/2009" A must for any married couple. Love it! Easy to read with practical advice and exercises. "
— Christine, 11/22/2008" This will be the wedding gift that I would give to any newly married couple. Good relationship advice for anyone though. "
— Nicko, 4/27/2008" This book is fantastic -and I don't say that just becasue my boss wrote it! It has some very good thinking on what it means to be married these days - especially for those of us who want it ALL. A good read for all women, I think! "
— Susan, 3/3/2008" This one is a bit redundant. I fear that Dr. Real is turning into a "one trick pony" "
— Russell, 8/31/2007Terrence Real is the bestselling author of I Dont Want to Talk about It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression and How Can I Get through to You?: Reconnecting Men and Women. He has been a practicing family therapist for more than twenty years, lecturing and giving workshops across the country. In March, 2002, he founded the Relational Empowerment Institute. His work has been featured on NBC Nightly News, Today, Good Morning America, and Oprah, as well as in the New York Times, Psychology Today, Esquire, and numerous academic publications. He lives with his wife and two sons in Newton, Massachusetts.