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4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 4.00 (1,212 ratings) (rate this audio book) Author: Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn Narrator: Jeff Feldhahn Publisher: Oasis Audio, LLC Format: Unabridged Audiobook Delivery: Instant Download Audio Length: Release Date: June 2013 ISBN: 9781621882480
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If you’re like most men, you’ve burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a woman wants, what makes her tick, how to make her happy.

The good news: success is simpler than you ever thought.  In their groundbreaking classic, For Men Only, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love. For example:

•Why she can’t “just not think about” something that’s bothering her

•How to get her real answers without games

•How your provider instinct can actually cause her heartache – and what to do about it

•Why “not tonight, honey” may not mean what you think

•Why listening to her feelings is so hard for a guy, and a fix-it plan that works

•Why her “I do” at the altar will always mean, “do you?” and the answer that rocks her world

Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.

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Quotes & Awards

  • “In our weekly couples’ study we read and discussed both For Women Only and For Men Only over the course of several months. They were fascinating and very helpful. The findings in For Men Only about how women think are so enlightening. My wife and I think these books should be required premarital reading!”

    Jeff Foxworthy

  • “Once again Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have unearthed a treasure chest of insights that are not only eye-opening, but life-changing.”

    Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point, Alpharetta, GA, and bestselling author

Listener Opinions

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Stephen | 2/18/2014

    " Simple, clear book on the way that your loved one thinks, all of this information is backed up with data. I don't think Shaunti Feldhahn wrote the book, but my Wife.. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Jen | 2/4/2014

    " Since I read for Women Only, I wanted to see if the other version would be good or reveal any biases on the part of the female author. And I wanted to check and see if this version about how women think would be true about me. Surprisingly, it did give new insight to me about the different ways women think. But again, this seems based on people of European descent. Some of these traits are shared in men and women of more laid back cultures, but I can see how this would be more descriptive of American society. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Bill | 2/3/2014

    " Reading this book was nearly as frustrating as actually living with the subject. Oh well... We're attending a marriage conference tonight and tomorrow by the authors, so hopefully they will be able to shed some additional light on the issues. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Steven Wedgeworth | 2/3/2014

    " Pretty helpful. I went in to this expecting it to be a little cheesy, but it was straightforward and basically accurate. A good tool for premarital counseling. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Tom Kimball | 1/26/2014

    " Wanna know what makes women tick? Really? Read this. A lot of stuff I already knew but it's nice ot have it in one neat, little, 190-page tome. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Chaffee Viets | 1/23/2014

    " Exceptional. Survey research presented is completely on target. A great help to my marriage and relationships with women. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Charity | 1/4/2014

    " I know it's for Men only. . .but this helped me gain insite into how Mike perceives me and the way I think and process information. I thought it was funny that it came with a 'cheat sheet' for the mens one, but not the For Women Only. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Tabitha | 1/4/2014

    " I did not enjoy this book as much as For Women Only -- for obvious reason. For the most part of thought this books was a fairly accurate picture of women. There were a few sections that made me say, "hmmmmm -- I don't feel this way" but overall a good book. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 John | 12/31/2013

    " I wished I finished reading this book three weeks ago. I wish I read it three years ago. I wish I read it before I began dating my wife. I recommend it. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Aldo Aguirre | 12/19/2013

    " Not the kind of book I would usually read, but it really is quite insightful. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Cathy | 12/19/2013

    " My husband plans on suggesting this to his small group at church! "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Mechelle | 12/19/2013

    " This book along with the For Women Only Book had some helpful tips, but a lot of the tips in these books just didn't apply to neither my husband nor myself. Everyone's different. These books probably help a lot of people, just not me. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Cary Sawatsky | 12/8/2013

    " A very practical book for guys. Some of this I already knew, but the reminders are good. Other points helped me see things from a different perspective which was very helpful. And yes, there was some information that opened my eyes to loving my wife even better. Well worth the effort. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Dusty | 11/28/2013

    " An excellent read. Super helpful. Very practical. The fact that the author actually shows some of the actual surveys is very convincing and very helpful. Jeff Feldahn is funny, straightforward, and Christ centered. I learned so much from this book. I highly recommend this book. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Bryan Kibbe | 11/5/2013

    " A relatively insightful book that strives for a balance between empirical research and anecdotal examples. The result is a good read, with some important insights into the women in our lives, particularly a wife or girlfriend. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Steve Stanley | 11/1/2013

    " My wife wanted me to read this along with the book for our pre-marital counseling. I have to say I really wasn't too stoked on it, but I read it anyways. It was pretty enlightening and thought provocative. Even if you know this stuff, its always a good refresher and its a pretty simple/quick read. "

  • 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5 Katie | 5/6/2013

    " Meh. Only got halfway through before I gave up. Really focuses on the stereotypical woman and how she thinks. Again, couldn't relate whatsoever. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Justin Bell | 2/26/2013

    " This was a great and simple book. A great starting place for us "lower life forms" to understanding the women God has called us to love and cherish. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Deb Pinyerd | 1/14/2013

    " ...i know, i'm nosy :-) "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Rick | 11/18/2012

    " I think this is better then 'men are from mars..'. Very interesting! "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Brian Townsend | 3/4/2012

    " Guys every where should read this book! "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Elizabeth | 3/4/2012

    " EVERY man should read this book. . . totally describes the heart of a woman! "

  • 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5 Ryan | 1/10/2012

    " Not so much ground breaking as much as a good insight or foundation to work from. Easy to read and digest. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Anna | 9/19/2011

    " The chapter on beauty really cut to the quick. Obviously this book was not intended for me, but I think my husband seemed to enjoy it. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Adam | 8/31/2011

    " I was forced to read this for my premarriage counseling. It turned out pretty good and helpful. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Christy | 8/25/2011

    " I, admittedly, am that emotional woman. This book really explained how we women work and though I'm sure it doesn't hold true for all of us, I think it's right on for many and should be read by every man....or at least my husband.... "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Charity | 5/10/2011

    " I think every woman should read this book no matter what stage of marriage they are in. It can do nothing but improve your marriage-even if you think it is at 100%! "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Tammy | 4/20/2011

    " A wonderful resource in understanding how your mans mind works! I found there was many things that I thought I knew and didnt! Well worth the read! "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Connie | 3/12/2011

    " This is a book every woman should read. An easy quick read. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Mary Ann | 2/5/2011

    " Very refreshing to have a book with actual surveys and data, and confessions from the modern, male population. Nothing I read was entirely new, but it was presented differently from other relationship books I have read, and I enjoyed it! "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Chaffee | 1/29/2011

    " This one really captures men. Highly recommend. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Allison | 1/18/2011

    " There are a lot of books out there about relationships. Bookstores have shelves devoted to the how to's and do not's of male and female relations. Yet I have never read a book quite like this one. It was insightful, scientific, and truly educating.

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  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Gina | 1/9/2011

    " Great book but have to be in the right state of mind to follow that path. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Callie | 12/13/2010

    " Quick read. Not really any new, revolutionary statements, but some great reminders included. "

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About the Author
Author Shaunti Feldhahn

Shaunti Feldhahn is a wife and mom first, as well as a popular speaker and bestselling author. After receiving a graduate degree from Harvard, Shaunti started out on Wall Street, but now applies her analytical experience in a totally different way. Today, Shaunti is a social researcher investigating the most important things we all need to know about the most important people in our lives—the vital surprises about the inner thoughts, feelings, fears and needs that they deeply wish we understood. As a result, her research has uncovered the little changes that have big impacts in our lives, marriages, families, and workplace relationships.