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0 out of 50 out of 50 out of 50 out of 50 out of 5 0.00 (0 ratings) (rate this audio book) Author: Ian Kerner Narrator: Ian Kerner Publisher: HarperCollins Format: Abridged Audiobook Delivery: Instant Download Audio Length: Release Date: February 2005 ISBN: 9780060835262
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As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what’s under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: “What do I do?” Ironically the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.

Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but in fact, it’s coreplay—simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.

She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler’s infamous line to Scarlett O’Hara, “You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.”

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Quotes & Awards

  • “Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they’re not satisfied.” Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City
  • “Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon.” Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine
  • “Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women’s legs!” Cake
  • “With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, [Kerner] encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.”

    New York Times

  • “An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!” Playgirl
  • “Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”


  • “An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!”


  • “Men can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman—the facts are all here in this complete guide.”

    Dr. Drew Pinsky

  • She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there.”


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About the Author
Author Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner is a nationally recognized sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author. He is a regular contributor to NBC’s Today show and the CBS Early Show, a contributing editor to Cosmopolitan, and CNN’s sex expert. He is also the founder of GoodinBed.com, a new web destination for sex / relationship advice that brings together some of the world’s most renowned sex experts. He lives in New York City with his wife and two sons.