Discover the truth he wants you to know!
The man in your life is keeping secrets. They’re so deep inside he barely knows they’re there, much less how to talk to you about them. Yet he genuinely wants you to “get” him — to understand his inner life, his fears, his needs...
In her landmark best-seller, For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman — single or married — needs to know. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including:
• Why your respect means more to him than your love
• How he feels deep inside about his role as provider
• What it means for a man to be so visually “wired”
• Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical
• What he most wishes he could say to you
Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you’ll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what’s really going on when he seems to “check out.” (You’ll be surprised and pleased.)
Millions worldwide have already experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the “aha!” moments and practical ideas in this little audio book. Discover how to love your man for who he really is — not who you think he is.
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"I really enjoyed this book. It definitely gave me some new ideas. It had some great surveys with interesting results. This book is great for married women who would like a more godly approach. FYI...it's not so religious that it's boring. It's definitely a fun quick read with new insight. PS also good for the single ladies who are trying to find that one."
— Adrianne (4 out of 5 stars)
“Shaunti’s signature message, which she has shared around the world with millions of listeners, is life changing and something every woman needs to hear. Every time I have given someone this book, I have seen lives and marriages changed!”
— Lysa TerKeurst, New York Times bestselling author of Made to Crave“Shaunti’s message has impacted my relationships personally, and I’ve seen some amazing transformation in the lives and marriages of others.”
— Holly Furtick, lead pastor’s wife, Elevation Church, Charlotte, NC" I have given this book to married friends over and over again. It is truly the way that works and helps you to understand and honor your husband that you love in speech and deed. "
— Lori, 2/6/2014" This book was eye opening! Every wife should read it. "
— Laura, 2/3/2014" Read this and read For Men Only. The writing is clear and concise. The information is valuable, particularly for women who are looking at a serious relationship with a guy. It's directed at married women, but that just means to take everything with a slight grain of salt if you are unmarried. "
— Stephanie, 2/2/2014" Learn what men are really up to.. They would rather be respected than loved? This book explains. Awesome way to learn about men! "
— Samantha, 2/2/2014" Every woman, married or not, should own this book. It's like getting an instruction manual for men! "
— Amy, 1/22/2014" Helpful if you're in a relationship! "
— Brooke, 1/22/2014" A very useful tool for couples to better understand one another. "
— Lindsey, 1/14/2014" As Jen said, a man can glean much knowledge of women by reading a book by a woman explaining men in terms a woman will understand. And if you understood that last sentence, then you don't need to read books about understanding other people :-p "
— Ted, 12/18/2013" This is a good book. Gave me lots to think about. "
— Jenn, 12/6/2013" Surprise surprise, a non fiction book :D Anyway, I heard this book from a blog post about how to write from Male POV. An eye opener for me, very useful IRL and love love love the last chapter. "
— Myeve123, 11/26/2013" There are a lot of books out there about relationships. Bookstores have shelves devoted to the how to's and do not's of male and female relations. Yet I have never read a book quite like this one. It was insightful, scientific, and truly educating. "
— Allison, 10/28/2013" This is a great book. At first, I thought it would be a bunch of wife submitting advise but not so. It is a book with great insight!! I recommend it to all women. "
— Michelle, 10/17/2013" Probably better than the "For Men Only" counterpart because it's everything you've ever wanted to explain to your spouse but didn't know how to. "
— Grant, 10/11/2013" Quick read. Not really any new, revolutionary statements, but some great reminders included. "
— Callie, 8/15/2013" My disclaimer is that I received this book from a friend going through a divorce. That said, I think the ideas presented range from stating the obvious to infantalizing men. "
— Shaney, 7/23/2013" Great info every woman should know "
— Kelsey, 7/18/2013" A must read for any woman out there. "
— Meredith, 3/14/2013" While it wasn't revoluntionary or earth-shattering, it provided some interesting concepts that I'd never thought of before. Well-researched and documented. This inspired some good discussion with my husband. It was a quick, easy read. "
— BreeAnn, 2/6/2013" Reinforced what I know to be true about men. I also learned a couple of new things. A quick, easy read. "
— Kristin, 9/23/2012" i like it so far. insightfull and intresting "
— Dani, 12/31/2011" I think every woman should read this book no matter what stage of marriage they are in. It can do nothing but improve your marriage-even if you think it is at 100%! "
— Charity, 7/18/2011" A very candid view into the mind and needs of a man. Every woman should read this. "
— Alexis, 7/17/2011" I'm not sure what to think about this. Feldhanh shares statistical information she learned during research for her book that might be insightful to some. It's dissemination of what she 'uncovered' regarding men. That about sums it up. It was okay. "
— Jep, 6/26/2011" I think every woman should read this book no matter what stage of marriage they are in. It can do nothing but improve your marriage-even if you think it is at 100%! "
— Charity, 5/10/2011" A wonderful resource in understanding how your mans mind works! I found there was many things that I thought I knew and didnt! Well worth the read! "
— Tammy, 4/20/2011" This is a book every woman should read. An easy quick read. "
— Connie, 3/12/2011" Very refreshing to have a book with actual surveys and data, and confessions from the modern, male population. Nothing I read was entirely new, but it was presented differently from other relationship books I have read, and I enjoyed it! "
— Mary, 2/5/2011" This one really captures men. Highly recommend. "
— Chaffee, 1/29/2011" There are a lot of books out there about relationships. Bookstores have shelves devoted to the how to's and do not's of male and female relations. Yet I have never read a book quite like this one. It was insightful, scientific, and truly educating. <br/> <br/> "
— Allison, 1/18/2011" Great book but have to be in the right state of mind to follow that path. "
— Gina, 1/9/2011" Quick read. Not really any new, revolutionary statements, but some great reminders included. "
— Callie, 12/13/2010Shaunti Feldhahn is a wife and mom first, as well as a popular speaker and bestselling author. After receiving a graduate degree from Harvard, Shaunti started out on Wall Street, but now applies her analytical experience in a totally different way. Today, Shaunti is a social researcher investigating the most important things we all need to know about the most important people in our lives—the vital surprises about the inner thoughts, feelings, fears and needs that they deeply wish we understood. As a result, her research has uncovered the little changes that have big impacts in our lives, marriages, families, and workplace relationships.