With unequaled insight and brio, David Brooks, the New York Times columnist and bestselling author of Bobos in Paradise, has long explored and explained the way we live. Now, with the intellectual curiosity and emotional wisdom that make his columns among the most read in the nation, Brooks turns to the building blocks of human flourishing in a multilayered, profoundly illuminating work grounded in everyday life.
This is the story of how success happens. It is told through the lives of one composite American couple, Harold and Erica—how they grow, push forward, are pulled back, fail, and succeed. Distilling a vast array of information into these two vividly realized characters, Brooks illustrates a fundamental new understanding of human nature. A scientific revolution has occurred—we have learned more about the human brain in the last thirty years than we had in the previous three thousand. The unconscious mind, it turns out, is most of the mind—not a dark, vestigial place but a creative and enchanted one, where most of the brain’s work gets done. This is the realm of emotions, intuitions, biases, longings, genetic predispositions, personality traits, and social norms: the realm where character is formed and where our most important life decisions are made. The natural habitat of The Social Animal.
Drawing on a wealth of current research from numerous disciplines, Brooks takes Harold and Erica from infancy to school; from the “odyssey years” that have come to define young adulthood to the high walls of poverty; from the nature of attachment, love, and commitment, to the nature of effective leadership. He reveals the deeply social aspect of our very minds and exposes the bias in modern culture that overemphasizes rationalism, individualism, and IQ. Along the way, he demolishes conventional definitions of success while looking toward a culture based on trust and humility.
The Social Animal is a moving and nuanced intellectual adventure, a story of achievement and a defense of progress. Impossible to put down, it is an essential book for our time, one that will have broad social impact and will change the way we see ourselves and the world.
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"An interesting approach to timeless questions: How can we be happy in this world? How are our lives shaped? How do we shape our lives? Brooks creates two characters and uses them as imaginary testcases, but they are more like fictional examples. Lots of science, too, in an accessible way."
— Mary (4 out of 5 stars)
“Authoritative, impressively learned, and vast in scope.
— NewsweekAs in [Bobos in Paradise] he shows genius in sketching archetypes and coining phrases. . . . In The Social Animal Mr. Brooks surveys a stunning amount of research and cleverly connects it to everyday experience.
— The Wall Street Journal[A] fascinating study of the unconscious mind and its impact on our lives . . . Brooks has done well to draw such vivid attention to the wide implications of the accumulated research on the mind and the triggers of human behaviour.
— The EconomistAn uncommonly brilliant blend of sociology, intellect and allegory.
— Kirkus Reviews (starred revew)Provocative and fascinating . . . seeks to do nothing less than revolutionize our notions about how we function and conduct our lives.
— The Philadelphia InquirerMultifaceted, compulsively readable . . . Brooks’s considerable achievement comes in his ability to elevate the unseen aspects of private experience into a vigorous and challenging conversation about what we all share.
— San Francisco Chronicle" I have mixed feelings about this book due to the occasional use of offensive language and descriptions. It was sporadic enough, but I never quite felt safe. The thing is, though, he would get on topics that were terribly intriguing and made me want to share it with various people. In fact, he covered such a wide variety of topics I thought of all kinds of people I wanted to share it with, but then I would get offended and think I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It just felt a bit gratuitous and flashy. I also didn't like how he had to make up a fictional story (not very interesting) just to explain a lot of interesting social observances. I read another book recently that did the same thing, but the story that supported all the interesting science was not made up. I think this book would have been more powerful for me if it hadn't had the made up part. But I guess he needed to be able to touch on all the topics he intended. Also, I like books that inspire me to action and in the end this one was just an extended compilation of essays that left me saying "hmm, that's interesting" but no more. "
— Sarah, 2/10/2014" David Brooks, are you trying to compete with Steven Pinker for the role of my public intellectual crush? "
— Rebekka, 1/25/2014" His one liners are hysterical, I enjoy seeing our culture dissected but the device of taking a huge body if research and Trying to put it into context through the lens of 2 characters is just driving me crazy. Not because I don't like his writing, I love it, but because the research can't be encapsulated in / through two people. And then there is the question of how valid the research is... Loved Bobos much but won't finish this book. Sorry David you are brilliant but It's not workig for me. "
— Jennifer, 1/23/2014" This is an interesting book, I'd recommend it "
— Ruth, 1/15/2014" Interesting thesis! It talks about how the subconscious controls so much of our behavior. It got a little dull in the middle, but overall, I liked it. "
— Nicole, 1/13/2014" This is a very readable description of the recent findings in social cognition organized around the life spans of two people. I really enjoyed it and think I learned a lot. "
— Jacqueline, 1/12/2014" The first few chapters about how babies' brains develop and how they learn are riveting. Also, the last chapter about old age. "
— Marlene, 1/6/2014" Page turning non fiction believe it or not! "
— Sabita, 12/27/2013" The author references all kinds of psychology, sociology and economic studies, but he does it in the context of a story, making it WAY more interesting. Very thoughtful, thought-provoking book. "
— Serene, 12/12/2013" An extremely insightful observation of society and traditional human relationships. Easy to read for anyone, as it is written in novel form. A must-read for psychology/sociology wonks. "
— Arielle, 7/25/2013" Really enjoyable read. Has been slammed by critics in many pubs, but I really liked it. SHould have read with a pen as there is a great deal of useful information for parents and for anyone hoping to be happy and/or productive. "
— G.R., 5/9/2013David Brooks is one of the nation’s leading writers and commentators. He is an op-ed columnist for the New York Times, a writer for The Atlantic, and appears regularly on PBS Newshour. He is the bestselling author of The Second Mountain, The Road to Character, The Social Animal, Bobos in Paradise, and On Paradise Drive.
Arthur Morey has won three AudioFile Magazine “Best Of” Awards, and his work has garnered numerous AudioFile Earphones Awards and placed him as a finalist for two Audie Awards. He has acted in a number of productions, both off Broadway in New York and off Loop in Chicago. He graduated from Harvard and did graduate work at the University of Chicago. He has won awards for his fiction and drama, worked as an editor with several book publishers, and taught literature and writing at Northwestern University. His plays and songs have been produced in New York, Chicago, and Milan, where he has also performed.