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4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 4.00 (2,009 ratings) (rate this audio book) Author: Dave Grossman Narrator: Dave Grossman Publisher: Hachette Book Group Format: Unabridged Audiobook Delivery: Instant Download Audio Length: Release Date:
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The good news is that the vast majority of soldiers are loath to kill in battle. Unfortunately, modern armies, using Pavlovian and operant conditioning have developed sophisticated ways of overcoming this instinctive aversion. The psychological cost for soldiers, as witnessed by the increase in post-traumatic stress, is devastating. The psychological cost for the rest of us is even more so: contemporary civilian society, particularly the media, replicates the army's conditioning techniques and, according to Lt. Col. Dave Grossman's thesis, is responsible for our rising rate of murder among the young.

Upon its first publication, ON KILLING was hailed as a landmark study of the techniques the military uses to overcome the powerful reluctance to kill, of how killing affects the soldier, and of the societal implications of escalating violence. Now, Grossman has updated this classic work to include information on 21st-century military conflicts, recent crime rates, suicide bombings, school shootings, and much more. The result is a work that is sure to be relevant and important for decades to come. Download and start listening now!


Quotes & Awards

  • “An illuminating account.” 

    Washington Post

  • “Grossman argues that the breakdown of American society, combined with the pervasive violence in the media and interactive video games, is conditioning our children to kill in a manner similar to the army’s conditioning of soldiers: ‘We are reaching that stage of desensitization at which the infliction of pain and suffering has become a source of entertainment: vicarious pleasure rather than revulsion. We are learning to kill, and we are learning to like it.’ Grossman, a professor of military science at Arkansas State University, has written a study of relevance to a society of escalating violence.” 

    Publishers Weekly

  • On Killing delivers insights on human nature that are both gratifying and repelling.” 


  • “This systematic examination of the individual soldier’s behavior, like all good scientific theory making, leads to a series of useful explanations for a variety of phenomena, such as the high rate of post traumatic stress disorders among Vietnam veterans, why the rate of aggravated assault continues to climb, and why civilian populations that have endured heavy bombing in warfare do not have high incidents of mental illness. This important book deserves a wide readership.” 

    Library Journal

Listener Opinions

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 by Shannon | 1/28/2014

    " Fascinating topic and interesting hypothesis. The second half of the book became somewhat repetitive. At times it felt more like listening to a college professor's lecture than reading a scholarly book. I happened to like my college lecturers for the most part so that isn't necessarily a bad thing. I would like to see a more up to date version dealing with the wars occurring today. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 by Marilyn Zeiler | 1/22/2014

    " A very interesting book for those trained for combat, self defense, police work. It investigates the psychological effect on the person who is training to kill whether for combat or self defense, It also covers the affects of violence in video games on those who play them. Very good read. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 by Allen Smith | 1/17/2014

    " If a person were to read one book researching a overview of the act of killing in wartime-broadly studying the directed engagement or resistance thereof-this should be the text to consult. Lt. Col. Dave Grossman presents a eye opening case around the training of soldiers in combat, and reveals statistics regarding the minimal hand to hand or up close fatalities, whereof distance or altered optics remains a required aspect to depersonalize the act of taking another life. There is added reflection upon the growing gun violence in civilian shootings in revised editions, however this builds upon the militarized training that is incorporated in for instance video games where combat situations are simulated. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 by Marjanne | 1/13/2014

    " This book was very interesting. I was not as up to date as I was expecting (it was written in the mid-1990's), but it is still relevant. It was interesting to read how people/soldiers are desensitized, and how that is at play in our media (and even worse now than it was when the book was written). Being the wife of a veteran I felt like it gave me some insight into some of the things my husband has experienced, and I hope it helps me to understand and support him better. This book should be read by anyone who supports a soldier (family and/or friends), and especially by politicians (particularly the president, governors, senators, etc.) as they often make choices about where to wage war. It really made me sad to see how Vietnam Vets have been overlooked and mistreated. I also think that anyone who is interested in the military should read this book as it shows the dark side of being a solider rather than the guts and glory of battle. It seems that there are a lot of people out there who think they understand soldiers because they have watched Band of Brothers and play Halo. Anyhow there's a lot I could say, but just not enough time. Oh, this book isn't for the faint of heart, or at least they shouldn't be surprised. "

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