Originally published as an e-book that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential.
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"I finally after 40 years woke up the man in myself and not the jerk. Great roadmap, great insights to wake up in a world that considers males as overprivileged lazy idiots. Helped me to cut through the misandrist (hate or downpull of males) articles all around and discovered myself. A life saver to help me get what I want and by myself. Not completely new but REALLY GOOD. "
— Peter V. (5 out of 5 stars)
" Re-listening to this audio book because... well because my dresden files books are messed up. <br/><br/>While I don't agree with everything Dr. Glover says in the book, he makes a lot of good points in many ways. "
— Michael, 2/17/2011" I just only wish I read this book earlier. Lot of things make sense now ;-). <br/>Really nice written with lot of examples, only I was bothered by repeated sentences sometimes. <br/>Definitely useful read. "
— Petr, 12/20/2010" Good collection of nice guy traits, and parts of its thesis hit home, but the prose was too self-helpy (condescending, passive-aggressive). "
— Michael, 1/26/2010" Very good for individuals who go along and get along. Helps nice guys with nice guy syndrome how to be selfish in a healthy way. Educates nice guys on finding good relationships. "
— Jon, 12/23/2009" I didn't actually read the book but listened to the audiobook a couple times. Pretty useful stuff for the lamewad in all of us. "
— Dante, 7/30/2008Dr. Robert A. Glover is a marriage and family therapist, and creator of Dating Essentials for Men and the director of TPI University. He divides his time between Bellevue, Washington and Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.