“Sue
Johnson’s slow-paced narration doesn’t give her thoughtful book the personality
or verve it deserves. But her voice, with its British accent and academic tone, sounds kind and genuine, and her writing is top-notch, so it’s easy to
adjust to her narrative style. Her book reveals a poet’s grasp of the history
of romantic love, especially its largely utilitarian foundations and the
unrealistic expectations we moderns have regarding our romantic partnerships.
Then, focusing on what works for most people and what science has discovered,
she explains the core concepts of attachment, emotional security, sexual
attraction, and mature love paradigms. The audio is a helpful reminder of why
self-knowledge, persistent communication, and the ability to navigate
differences are essential for romantic attachments to remain viable.”