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A truly revolutionary, breakthrough book...the most important, valuable book for couples published in the twenty-first century.
- Barry McCarthy, PhD
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Dr. Johnson's superb science, humor, and clinical wisdom are finally accessible to us all. I couldn't pick a smarter, warmer, and more real guide for this journey.
- John Gottman, PhD
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A much-needed message to all couples and therapists, and I recommend it to all.
- Harville Hendrix, PhD
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“A life-changing book! Dr. Johnson elucidates the science of love, convincingly demonstrating the underlying emotional logic of relationships. In an entertaining way, she gives us practical, down-to-earth examples and exercises to help us develop our ‘love sense.’ It will enrich the lives of all who read it.”
- Richard Lannon, MD, coauthor of A General Theory of Love
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“You won’t find a better book combining wonderful insight, practical wisdom, and the latest science of relationships. Plus the passion of a psychologist intent on making the world safe for the kind of intimacy we all long for.”
- William J. Doherty, PhD, author of Take Back Your Marriage
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“Read this book and learn how to create a life that is a safe haven for love.”
- John M. Gottman, PhD, author of What Makes Love Last?
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“This is a wonderful, uplifting, energizing book.”
- Phillip R. Shaver, PhD, distinguished professor of psychology, University of California, Davis
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“Sue
Johnson’s slow-paced narration doesn’t give her thoughtful book the personality
or verve it deserves. But her voice, with its British accent and academic tone, sounds kind and genuine, and her writing is top-notch, so it’s easy to
adjust to her narrative style. Her book reveals a poet’s grasp of the history
of romantic love, especially its largely utilitarian foundations and the
unrealistic expectations we moderns have regarding our romantic partnerships.
Then, focusing on what works for most people and what science has discovered,
she explains the core concepts of attachment, emotional security, sexual
attraction, and mature love paradigms. The audio is a helpful reminder of why
self-knowledge, persistent communication, and the ability to navigate
differences are essential for romantic attachments to remain viable.”
- AudioFile