Why America's sons are underachieving, and what we can do about it. Something is happening to boys today. From kindergarten to college, American boys are, on average, less resilient and less ambitious than they were a mere twenty years ago. The gender gap in college attendance and graduation rates has widened dramatically. While Emily is working hard at school and getting A's, her brother Justin is goofing off. He's more concerned about getting to the next level in his videogame than about finishing his homework. In Boys Adrift, Dr. Leonard Sax delves into the scientific literature and draws on more than twenty years of clinical experience to explain why boys and young men are failing in school and disengaged at home. He shows how social, cultural, and biological factors have created an environment that is literally toxic to boys. He also presents practical solutions, sharing strategies which educators have found effective in re-engaging these boys at school, as well as handy tips for parents about everything from homework, to videogames, to medication.
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"This book was fascinating. I couldn't put it down. The information on same-gender schools was very interesting and led me to do more research on my own, and makes me wish that they had same-gender schools (or at least classrooms) here in Utah. If I have boys, I might actually buy a copy of this book for reference (a very high compliment coming from me)."
— Christie (5 out of 5 stars)
“A must-read for any parent of boys.”
— Dr. Mehmet OzBoys Adrift is a must-read for any parent of boys. This is real science, and Dr. Sax thoroughly uncovers the important health issues that parents of boys need to be tuned into.
— Dr. Mehmet OzFascinating...terrifying...Sax identifies an epidemic of lost boys. Luckily, he offers solutions.
— Glob and Mail (Canada)Sax, in his pointed, conversational new book, Boys Adrift, reports seeing something new in his medical practice, and hearing something disturbing in the comments after his talks around the nation. Parents and girlfriends describe boys and young men plastered to the controls of their video games, hostile to school, disconnected from adult men and listless on "academic steroids" prescribed to them for attention deficit disorders. Sax zeroes in on these maladies . . .Boys Adrift is an important entry into the conversation. This call to reconsider how the boy becomes the man is worth heeding.
— The Cleveland Plain DealerBoys Adrift presents a straightforward argument that incorporates solid research and, thankfully, does not blame feminism. . . Sax also makes sure to remind us that he doesn't think girls have it easier. But at a time when it is almost unusual to find a young man with drive and direction, Sax's work is an important part of a growing public discussion.
— The StrangerSax's discussion of a "failure to launch" will ring true for many parents and other concerned adults, and his final chapter on detoxing the modern environment for boys and girls should provoke both thought and action. Though Sax's book is written in a conversational tone, his documentation is thorough and impressive. This is an important book, especially for parents and educators, but for anyone who is concerned with the well-being of our society and its young people.
— The Daily HeraldStartling...like a brick thrown through your window.
— CBCExcellent and informative references and information are provided . . . Powerfully and persuasively presented.
— The Journal of the American Medical Association" So much valuable information here for parents...so glad Leonard Sax took the time to write and research this book. I will be reading all of his additional books. Fantastic narration in addition to being a great book. "
— JT, 11/25/2017" Hubby & I both liked this. Great thoughts and ideas on how we are raising boys. Agreed with almost all this author presented. "
— Adrian, 2/1/2014" Well worth the read; everyone involved in a boy's life should read this, especially SCHOOLTEACHERS. "
— deLille, 1/15/2014" For a single mom with a 9 year old boy that has ADD/ADHD and helping him survive school, friends, family...this book brought up great arguments and points of views. The author does a wonderful job with sharing studies and statics in an easy to read book. "
— Manni, 1/5/2014" Interesting that Dr. Sax references more than once "The Last Boy in the Woods," another pivotal book guiding my child-rearing philosophy. These are both books that guide how I raise my son! "
— D'Ann, 1/5/2014" This book informed me, frightened me, and gave me hope. There is some very important information for anyone who works with or raises boys. Particularly if you hope to raise them into men. "
— Tamara, 1/2/2014" Started reading this, didn't finish. I borrowed from the library & had to return it--I probably will just buy a copy. :) "
— Kelli, 12/31/2013" One of those books that anyone who is raising or teaching boys should read. Sure, some of the opinions are heavily biased, but it was full of vital information for understanding how to raise our boys into happy, productive, healthy men. I'll be picking up Dr. Sax's 'Gender Matters' soon. "
— Kristyan, 12/23/2013" Excellent insight. A must read for any parent of little boys. "
— Reidjules, 10/14/2013" Loved it. Everybody should read this book. Whether you have boys, girls, or no kids at all. Can't wait to read his others. "
— Candi, 9/15/2013" Every parent of a young boy should read this. Our culture/society is not set up to support young boys in meaningful ways to foster their development. I believe we see the results all around us. "
— Danny, 4/23/2013" EVERY parent of a boy should read this book. Very enlightening. "
— Molli, 3/13/2013" I had to read this book for a class I took this summer. It has some very interesting and unusual ideas. Parents of boys and teachers should read this. "
— Diane, 10/20/2012" If you have boys in your life, pick this book up! It's a fascinating read, extremely enlightening. Reconfirmed our decision to wait a year to put M in school and to not have video games in our home among many other things. Well researched and interesting to read. "
— Erin, 7/31/2012" If you have boys, this is a must read. This book of full of documented facts. "
— Tanya, 6/26/2012" Must Read if you have kids or want to have kids. Compelling "
— Tim, 4/11/2012" Great read...started reading this book since my son was entering kindergarten soon....enlightening. "
— Laura, 4/9/2012" Really intriguing book. I bought it to help with teaching high school students, but found it so helpful as a parent as well, Much of this I have heard before, but he puts it together in a more comprehensive way that I really "got." Worth the read if there are boys or young men in your life. "
— Diane, 2/17/2012" MCL. Recommended by Andrew Pudewa in his CIRCE talk on teaching boys. "
— Mystie, 12/24/2011" Sax seems to present this in an even, non-extremist way. Thus, it is far easier to respect his ideas and consider them credible. However, to avoid being called sexist, one must also apply this to girls of today. Our problem might not be video games, but I'm pretty sure that we do have one. "
— Chrisanne, 5/31/2011" This is a thoughtful, interesting book. I think anyone with a son should read it -- even if your son doesn't fit the profile he's talking about, it helps to understand the environment they live in. "
— Anna, 5/17/2011" Outstanding in understanding current educational/cultural influences which are counter productive to male development. "
— Morgan, 5/9/2011" Very interesting investigation into some trends that those of us who are raising boys will have to deal with. "
— Rob, 5/3/2011" Thought there was loads of good information. "
— Sherry, 4/22/2011" I thought this book was very informative. I agreed with the author on most of his points. It was hard to read though thinking of my two young boys and how to avoid some of these problems in their futures. A bit unsettling but it has really made me think. "
— Martha, 4/13/2011" I'll need to read this again when I have a son. Definitely good information for anyone with sons or men in their lives. "
— Malea, 3/29/2011" Well worth the read; everyone involved in a boy's life should read this, especially SCHOOLTEACHERS. "
— deLille, 2/19/2011" Great book! Everyone with boys should read this. "
— Liz, 2/3/2011" I think anyone with boys should read this book. Very insightful. "
— Tina, 2/2/2011" If you have a SON, please READ THIS BOOK! A lot of GREAT food for thought. After you read it, let's go to lunch and discuss! It's good on audio-I listened to the first half. "
— Elena, 2/1/2011Leonard Sax, M.D., Ph.D., is a practicing family physician, a PhD psychologist, and a speaker for community groups, schools, and professional organizations. His scholarly work has been published in a wide variety of journals including American Psychologist, Annals of Family Medicine, Behavioral Neuroscience, Environmental Health Perspectives, and the Journal of the American Medical Association. He has been a featured guest on CNN, PBS, The TODAY Show, Fox News, NPR’s “Talk of the Nation,” and many other national programs. He lives with his wife and daughter in suburban Philadelphia.
Allan Robertson is a voice talent and audiobook narrator.