""A loving testament to the work and reward of the best friendships, the kind where your arms can’t distinguish burden from embrace.” — People
New York Times Bestselling author Ann Patchett’s first work of nonfiction chronicling her decades-long friendship with the critically acclaimed and recently deceased author, Lucy Grealy.
Ann Patchett and the late Lucy Grealy met in college in 1981, and, after enrolling in the Iowa Writer’s Workshop, began a friendship that would be as defining to both of their lives as their work. In Gealy's critically acclaimed and hugely successful memoir, Autobiography of a Face, she wrote about losing part of her jaw to childhood cancer, years of chemotherapy and radiation, and endless reconstructive surgeries. In Truth & Beauty, the story isn't Lucy's life or Ann's life, but the parts of their lives they shared together. This is a portrait of unwavering commitment that spans twenty years, from the long cold winters of the Midwest, to surgical wards, to book parties in New York. Through love, fame, drugs, and despair, this is what it means to be part of two lives that are intertwined...and what happens when one is left behind.
This is a tender, brutal book about loving the person we cannot save. It is about loyalty and being uplifted by the sheer effervescence of someone who knew how to live life to the fullest.
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"I was shopping in the Kindle store for the new Patchett book (I loved Bel Canto) and decided to purchase this instead because it was cheaper. I didn't realize it was autobiographical until I was well into it. The book is mostly about her relationship with Lucy Grealy and their struggles to become published authors. The book was good by itself, but I became much more interested in it when I discovered that Lucy had her own book and that both books stirred up some controversy."
— Tara (4 out of 5 stars)
" I really love this book. Lucy is a very compelling person and Ann Patchett writes so beautifully about her and their friendship. Relationships are messy. "
— Diane, 2/8/2014" My favorite idea that she conveys is that she can no more "quit" her friend, Lucy, who she loves as much as anybody, than Lucy can "quit" her drug use. We can't choose who we love and who we're going to stop loving, usually regardless of how much they hurt us or themselves. "
— Shannon, 1/30/2014" Read Autobiography of a Face then read Truth and Beauty. They give you two different perspectives on the life of Lucy Grealy. "
— Julia, 1/29/2014" i loved this book! it's about the friendship between ann patchett and lucy grealy, she wrote the "autobiography of a face", and what lengths you will go to help someone you love. i cried. "
— melita, 1/22/2014" One of the best books I've read in a while. True friendship is an enduring, infuriating and all encompassing love. "
— Juls, 1/6/2014" This book was a really good non-fiction read. I often struggle with reading books that aren't fiction, so I was unsure whether I would like it or not, but I really wanted to see how Ann depicted her friendship with Lucy. She didn't glorify their relationship or make it seem prettier or nicer than it was. She painted a real portrait of a friendship with good parts and ugly parts, making the book relatable and engaging. I'm going to recommend it to my best friend. "
— Toni, 12/29/2013" I thought it would be more about their friendship but it was a very one-sided story of Lucy's selfishness and likely underlying mental illness. It may have just been a very one-sided friendship. It was an interesting read with a sad but predictable ending. "
— Kimberly, 12/5/2013" A beautiful portrait of friendship - I definitely recommend reading it along with Autobiography of a Face and Suellen Grealy's Guardian aritcle. "
— Julie, 11/29/2013" Hard to read story of how we cope with challenges life presents to us ---- and how we make these challenges incomprehensibly worse... "
— Gisele, 11/11/2013" This is a story about Ann Patchett's close friendship with Lucy Greeley. This book made me appreciate how "normal" my friends are. "
— Judy-Sug, 10/18/2013" Ann Patchett is perfection. That is it, pure and simple. I want to be friends with her. "
— Leigh, 8/30/2013" A sad but beautifullly written story about love and friendship. "
— Samantha, 8/9/2013" Sad but beautiful memoir about the relationship between two successful modern women authors. "
— Stephanie, 7/22/2013" A beautiful and yet completely disfunctional friendship. "
— Krista, 7/1/2013" I can see why she had to write this book BUT ... it is kind of tedious for the rest of us to have to read. Bits though are beautifully written. "
— Anja, 6/21/2013" I read this as the March selection for Real Simple Magazine's "No Obligation Book Club.". It was okay. Interesting topic, but overall I found it a bit tiresome. I did want to see how it ended so I persevered, but it's not a book I would have chosen to read on my own. "
— Carla, 6/3/2013" Wow! Powerful and exhausting. It is the true story of two women and their deep friendship. They meet in college and both become well known writers. It involves addictions and how we can wrongly think we are loving someone by never saying "no more"! "
— Elaine, 3/14/2012" A poignant,sad account of one woman's struggle with her post-cancer face, men, and her writing. The tragedy of this gifted writer's spiral down is documented in this book by her dear friend. Well-written and compelling. "
— Rachel, 1/27/2012" A profound portrait of a difficult but meaningful friendship. "
— Liz, 1/15/2012" What a gorgeous read! I highly recommend this book to anyone who has a really close friend! "
— Jason, 12/24/2011" Good but strange and disturbing at times. "
— Marcie, 10/3/2011" This memoir is beautiful and heart-breaking. "
— Joan, 9/26/2011" A very well-written look into the "ant" side of a co-depended relationship. While it was interesting to read because the ladies are interesting, I'm not sure that I formed a relationship with either of them. "
— Amber, 9/11/2011" Lucy was too kind about the pain and suffering she went through in Autobiography of a Face. Ann tells the story of the 30+ surgeries Lucy had. An excellent story (?) of friendship. "
— Sandy, 6/26/2011" Read her first book. Even better. I think she has a new one out now. "
— Joan, 6/26/2011" stunning. ann patchett is a wonderful storyteller. the story itself is tragic and sad, endearing and horrifying, but the journey patchett takes you on is unforgettable. "
— Francine, 6/23/2011" Loved, loved, loved this memoir. An amazing story of a somewhat one-sided friendship. Interesting to read about the story of these two friends, both talented writers and bright women. Terrifically well-written, and I'm on my way to reading more from Ann Patchett. "
— Lynn, 6/14/2011" This book was amazing. A truly unique story coupled with the ultimate universal theme of friendship. "
— Jessica, 5/25/2011" I like Ann Patchett and it was cool to read more about her life and her friendship. "
— Hannah, 5/17/2011" Curious to read Lucy Grealy's memoir. Sad, but seemingly honest, account/witnessing of a friend's descent into despair and ultimately death. "
— Nora, 5/16/2011" Read this one a few years ago and really enjoyed it. "
— Meg, 5/10/2011" I loved Lucy Greely's Autobiography of a Face, so I was disappointed to learn that she took advantage of people constantly and really just came across as someone who wanted to be famous. I was expecting a more lyric style from Patchett too. "
— Sandra, 5/9/2011" I love every other book by Ann Patchett (not so much with Taft, but even that was a decent read). With this one, the writing was fine, but I found I didn't like Ann Patchett as much by the end. She came across like a bit of an intellectual elitist--snob--and fairly self-centered. "
— Jenny, 4/24/2011Ann Patchett is the author of #1 New York Times bestselling novels, works of nonfiction, and children’s books. She has been the recipient of numerous awards, including the PEN/Faulkner, the Women’s Prize in the United Kingdom, and the Book Sense Book of the Year. Her novel The Dutch House was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize. Time magazine named her one of the 100 Most Influential People in the World. President Biden awarded her the National Humanities Medal in recognition of her contributions to American culture. Visit her at annpatchett.com