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0 out of 50 out of 50 out of 50 out of 50 out of 5 0.00 (0 ratings) (rate this audio book) Author: Kim John Payne Narrator: Mel Foster Publisher: Brilliance Audio Format: Unabridged Audiobook Delivery: Instant Download Audio Length: Release Date: June 2015 ISBN: 9781501212031
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From the author of Simplicity Parenting comes an elegantly simple and inspiring plan to help parents set limits, correct behavior, and influence a child’s decision-making by playing three specific roles: the Governor, of younger kids; the Gardener, who watches, listens, and decides on the right course of action for school-age children; and the Guide, who collaborates with increasingly mature teenagers. Download and start listening now!


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  • “Narrating this solid parenting resource, Mel Foster captures both the helpful attitude and pleasing clarity of the author’s advice on parenting unruly children. His reasonable, optimistic tone and unfaltering diction will help neutralize the panic a lot of parents feel when their kids act out. The author provides a thoughtful framework for understanding children. He says kids of all ages often behave negatively because they’re disoriented—unsure of their family’s expectations and begging for structure. Using three basic parenting roles (governor, gardener, guide) for various stages of a child’s development, parents can stay connected with their offspring emotionally and implement the level of oversight most useful for each child. Foster delivers this satisfying package of insights and guidance with comforting equanimity. ”


  • “The Soul of Discipline offers practical tools for helping parents implement discipline that’s respectful and effective, but the book is so much more. Kim John Payne offers a framework to guide parents in making decisions about why, when, and how to hold tighter reins as we build skills in our children, and why, when, and how to loosen the reins as we scaffold freedom.”

    Tina Payne Bryson, PhD, coauthor of No-Drama Discipline

  • “This book gets deep inside the challenge of getting along with children and teens and thinks deeply about what they need from us to become strong and self-managing. It elevates discipline to what it should be—a caring process of helping kids orient to the world and live in it happily and well.”

    Steve Biddulph, author of The New Manhood

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About the Author

Kim John Payne, MEd, has been a school counselor for nearly twenty years and a private family counselor-therapist for over fifteen years. He has worked extensively with the North American and UK Waldorf movements and is currently the director of the Waldorf Collaborative Counseling Program at Antioch University New England, the director of a large research program on a drug-free approach to attention priority disorders, and a partner of the Alliance for Childhood in Washington, DC. Payne lives with his wife and two children in Harlemville, New York.

About the Narrator

Mel Foster is a prolific audiobook narrator, having read dozens of titles throughout his career. He is the recipient of the prestigious Audie Award, as well as the AudioFile Earphones Award. A former advertising agency executive who used to record test tracks for commercials, his narration career was born out of encouragement from his clients who would often say, “why are we hiring someone else? I like this guy.”