Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking is a book about introverts, for both introverts and extroverts. It strives to bolster pride in introverts and encourage understanding from extroverts. Introverts have made their mark in the world, even if you'll never catch them bragging about it. From artists to scientists to some of the greatest minds of the technological age, introverts have helped to shape the way the world is today. This is especially true in the arts and sciences.
Quiet attempts to sort out how extroverted personalities became the ideal in the 20th century, and how this has affected how society views introverts and how introverts see themselves. It talks of "pretend extroverts," a frequent occurrence among introverts as a reaction to feeling that their personality type is inferior. The book takes a look at both side of the human psyche through profiles of individuals, scientific studies and a look at Harvard Business school and a West Coast retreat center. Harvard plays the extrovert foil for the introverted people of the retreat center.
According to Quiet, introverts do not need to feel like they have something wrong with them, or that they need to live up to the expectations of an extroverted world. Instead, they should be proud of the roles where their personality type is needed. The book compares the societal contributions of both Bill Gates and Bill Clinton while contrasting their personality traits. It discusses how introverts such as Gates are necessary in advancing the arts and sciences.
Quiet author Susan Cain attended Princeton University then Harvard Law School. She served as a Wall Street attorney for several years and ran a consulting firm called The Negotiation Company. An introvert herself, however, Cain decided a quieter life as a writer was for her. Quiet, her first book, was published in 2012.
"Probably one of the most important and influential books I have ever read. A thoughtful study of introversion and extroversion which really helped me to understand the introverts & extroverts in my life and how and why we react differently. The author analyses the cult of extroversism ( my neologism?) and shows the power of quietly spoken, thoughtful people. A must read for extroverts and introverts alike!"
— Elaine (5 out of 5 stars)
#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Experience the book that started the Quiet Movement and revolutionized how the world sees introverts—and how introverts see themselves—by offering validation, inclusion, and inspiration “Superbly researched, deeply insightful, and a fascinating read, Quiet is an indispensable resource for anyone who wants to understand the gifts of the introverted half of the population.”—Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY People • O: The Oprah Magazine • Christian Science Monitor • Inc. • Library Journal • Kirkus Reviews At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over working in teams. It is to introverts—Rosa Parks, Chopin, Dr. Seuss, Steve Wozniak—that we owe many of the great contributions to society. In Quiet, Susan Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and shows how much we lose in doing so. She charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal throughout the twentieth century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture. She also introduces us to successful introverts—from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Passionately argued, impeccably researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how they see themselves.
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“An intriguing and potentially life-altering examination of the human psyche that is sure to benefit both introverts and extroverts alike.”
— Kirkus Reviews (starred review)“Cain offers a wealth of useful advice for teachers and parents of introverts…Quiet should interest anyone who cares about how people think, work, and get along, or wonders why the guy in the next cubicle acts that way. It should be required reading for introverts (or their parents) who could use a boost to their self-esteem.”
— Fortune“Cain gives excellent portraits of a number of introverts and shatters misconceptions. Cain consistently holds the reader’s interest by presenting individual profiles, looking at places dominated by extroverts (Harvard Business School) and introverts (a West Coast retreat center), and reporting on the latest studies. Her diligence, research, and passion for this important topic has richly paid off.”
— Publishers Weekly“An important book that should embolden anyone who's ever been told, ‘Speak up!’”
— People“This book is a pleasure to read and will make introverts and extroverts alike think twice about the best ways to be themselves and interact with differing personality types.”
— Library Journal“An intelligent and often surprising look at what makes us who we are.”
— Booklist“A superbly researched, deeply insightful, and fascinating book that will change forever the way society views introverts.”
— Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project" The book is good to re-affirm the introvert personality traits to those who already know they are one. It helps give an insight of the great thing introverts can do, yet it has a political bias which was a turnoff for me since I am not interested in knowing more than what I am already exposed to without wanting to. "
— Geo, 12/8/2017" One of the very best things I've read in a long time! "
— Sarah, 2/15/2014" Insightful. Helped me understand and adapt toward the introverts who are closest to me. "
— Christi, 2/6/2014" A little slow getting started and a bit repetitive at the end, but the meat in the sandwich is great. I particularly liked the examples/case studies about parents and children, couples and bosses and employees learning to work with each others conflicting styles. Challenges some long standing assumptions about how we reward, encourage, coerce extroversion. "
— Cluessister, 1/25/2014" I listened to this book on my iPod and it was wonderful. I tried to read the book afterward and found it difficult to read. "
— Lisa, 1/20/2014" Interesting ideas but Ms. Cain hammered her theme home so frequently that it eventually got boring. She was very self-referential, and I got a bit sick of that. That said, I learned a bit about introverts and, by inference, about extroverts, too. "
— Carrieg, 1/1/2014" I can't recommend this book enough. I had to keep pausing and putting the book down several times because my brain needed to process this new information before absorbing more of it. I found it a true gem. "
— Irina, 12/15/2013" Fascinating read, implications for learning and teaching, parenting, conducting business, understanding colleagues and friends and even ourselves better. "
— Sue, 11/23/2013" Just what I needed to read...and what many others do too. "
— Carolyn, 10/20/2013" Good observations overall, but there was too much political bias in the examples which was distracting and took away from the points she was trying to make. "
— Julie, 10/2/2013" loved the historical approach to a culture of too much talk about nothing, of arguing for the sake of arguing without too much thinking "
— Cristian, 6/26/2013" It was just OK. I found the subject matter in general to be very subjective and fairly one-sided. Overall, I don't think I would necessarily recommend it. "
— James, 12/6/2012" Many times while reading I caught myself thinking: "Yes! Thats me!". It was very inspiring to read about strengths of introverts. But I am learning to be extravert sometimes and compensate my weaknesses and was glad to read that I am on the right way. "
— Sergey, 11/12/2012" Parts were insightful, parts were not applicable. For example, extensive discussion about raising introverted kids, but if the reader is an introvert, perhaps a discussion of the whole dating/relationship thing might be helpful before jumping to child rearing. "
— Rachel, 6/17/2012" Well-written and well-researched. Now I finally know the physiological reason for my temperament. "
— Jane, 5/13/2012" This book was excellent with informing people about the strengths and weaknesses of both introverts and extroverts. I like how she says shows important introverts are in this extrovert laden/pushed world we now live in. "
— Velvet, 3/6/2012Susan Cain is a graduate of Princeton and Harvard Law School who worked as a corporate lawyer before deciding to write Quiet and then devote herself to the cause of empowering introverts. Her book has been a New York Times Bestseller for well over three years and has won numerous awards. Susan lives with her family on the banks of the Hudson River in New York.
Kathe Mazur has narrated many audiobooks, winning the prestigious Audie Award for best narration in 2014, being named a finalist for the Audie Award in 2013 and 2015, and winning several AudioFile Earphones Awards. As an actress, she can be seen as DDA Hobbs on The Closer and in the upcoming Major Crimes. She has worked extensively in film, theater, and television, including appearances on Grey’s Anatomy, Private Practice, House, Brothers and Sisters, Criminal Minds: Suspect Behavior, ER, Monk, and many others.