The Myths of Happiness: What Should Make You Happy, but Doesn't, What Shouldn't Make You Happy, but Does Audiobook

" I have nothing good to say about this book because I don't or won't believe my troubles are in its scope. "

" Sonja Lyubomirsky combines the latest research with personal insights and advice to create what just might be the most useful "how to be happy" guide around. She breaks the book up into life stages: marriage, parenthood, etc. Most of the advice is so new that it's surprising, but also easy and fun to implement. I read the book a few months back, but I'm still using some of the tips and tricks. "

" Be grateful for what you have, don't obsess, don't analyze the good stuff but do analyze the bad stuff, don't sweat the small stuff. If you can do something about an issue that bothers you then do it, if you can't do something then take it in stride. Common sense stuff. "

" This book has some good advice that jives with my experience on making myself happy. It covers the major life event and why they are not as important as you think in a person's overall happiness. The little pleasures and frustrations although smaller and seemingly insignifigant have more of an impact on a person's happiness. A good read and good advice on how to stay happy and feel good about life in general. "

" The basic message is this: Humans adapt. We get used to really good things in time (and take them for granted) and we get used to really bad things in time too. So fearing the really bad stuff doesn't really help anything, and fearing a life without the really good stuff doesn't make sense either. I came away from this book with the reassuring notion that one's life experience, once basic needs are met, is mostly in what you think about it. "

" Nothing profoundly new but good reminders that happiness does not depend on circumstances. "

" third book in the "happiness" genre. i liked this one. not as fluffy as Gretchen Rubin's book and not as rah rah as acher. good practical stuff. pragmatic. "

" i don't generally read self help books...but this one was actually...helpful! i needed a pick-me-up and this was it. really liked it. "

" This book is a good read, it puts words (intelligent ones) to feelings you have or have struggled with and offers decent I sight. I was looking for ground-breaking or something and this wasn't it. But it's definitely a good book for anyone seeking or delaying happiness to read. "

" Great book about how we can become accustomed to the good things in our lives and fail to appreciate them, and how we can also dwell on the harder things and make them harder still. Very well written, this is a great introduction to the author's research. "

" It was overgeneralized and narrow in its scope. "

" Great little nuggets of wisdom. I wish everyone could practice even half of it- the world would be so much happier:) "

" I might have found this more helpful if I hadn't already read a number if books on this subject including the author's first book. "

" A good review of scientific studies on happiness and ways to make yourself happier. I thought the book would be a bit different but it is well written and easy to locate just the inforamtion you need. "

" I liked how this book was organized. A fun read that I found myself referring to in conversation "

" Great book. Explains the science behind everyday unhappiness/boredom, and actually provides some useful information as to how to be happier. "

" This is the best book on "happiness" I have read. It is well researched, easy to read and has real, practical advice. Every chapter may not apply to everybody, but there is some great information in here that lots of people would benefit from. "

" I appreciated that Lyubomirsky's book was more research-based than anecdotal. I also liked her emphasis on "reasoned 'second thoughts'" (246). "