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3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 3.00 (676 ratings) (rate this audio book) Author: Ian Kerner Narrator: Ian Kerner Publisher: HarperAudio Format: Unabridged Audiobook Delivery: Instant Download Audio Length: Release Date: January 2005 ISBN:
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Avoid the booty call blues and get the love, and sex, you deserve!

Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never the one, but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married, you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.

The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love with a great guy who is into you. So raise your standards, and reach for the love you deserve! Download and start listening now!

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Listener Opinions

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Jamie | 2/18/2014

    " I loved this book so much after I read it that I sent Ian Kerner an email, thanking him for such an empowering, insightful book. And he actually wrote back! "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Rachel | 2/16/2014

    " Author wrote this book as a counter balance to He's Just Not That Into You ... some snippets...women can't actually have sex like men because a woman's brain chemistry is different (attach). men have feelings too. Respect yourself and stop lowering your standards. Overall the book was pretty empty. His and his wife's story at the end is kind of sweet, the most worthwhile thing in the book. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Sherry | 2/13/2014

    " Filled with interesting bits of information. Quite possibly the best relationship book I've read to date. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Samantha | 2/8/2014

    " And it's true--I wasn't. The end. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Maryanne | 2/2/2014

    " So-so compared with the previous one "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Angela | 1/31/2014

    " wasnt as funny as expected but oddly had some good scientific info such as chemicals in your body that get released and cause certian behaviors. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Kimmie | 1/12/2014

    " I hated "He's not that into you"...but I thought this book was a lot more realistic. It also showed women as having some backbone and sense of self...not like needy little school girls like the other book! "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Jennie | 1/11/2014

    " Not as good as He's Just Not That Into You, but still funny and good food for thought. Encourages women to examine their motivations for staying with their mates; seems like a good idea....... "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Jen | 12/24/2013

    " ha, ha, the response to the "he's not that into you" book! "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Nerida Hart | 12/12/2013

    " i liked "hes just not that into you" better. kinda just re-iterating the same thing "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Chelacreates | 12/10/2013

    " great book funnny and so true things you know but sometimes need to hear "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Amy | 11/5/2013

    " Loved it!!!! I am definately the girl who stays with a guy just because I want everyone to want me. It's a nice addition to "he's just not that into you" because some guys, I could care less whether or not they are into me! "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Dina | 11/2/2013

    " Very interesting way of looking at relationships. A fun read! "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Janell Dirksen | 10/28/2013

    " I read this with a friend in college- funny read- but kind of stupid. "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Hope | 6/12/2013

    " Got this for Megan's stocking and skimmed through it. not a lot of substance there... "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Lindsey | 9/23/2012

    " The response to He's just not that into you. This wasn't as funny as its predecessor. I did like it however. It is more of a self help book, which made it a little more dull. "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Lizzy | 7/19/2012

    " My sister bought me this one, too, during the "He's not all that into you" era. It was cute, but doesn't really help that much. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Sarah Marie | 6/6/2012

    " Not as good as He's Just Not That Into You, but still an okay read. I would say women should read it after getting out of a relationship gone bad! "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Kristen Considine | 5/6/2012

    " great response to he's just not that into you. funny how women work. we want so badly to have that fairytale love we'll do anything to convince ourselves we've found it. LOL "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Hillary | 4/22/2012

    " I have to admit, I liked this book better than "He's Just Not That Into You". This book was more about realizing the reasons you do what you do when it comes to guys; coming to terms with why you shouldn't lower your standards; and how to deal with it all. "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Hope McCormick | 2/7/2012

    " The book was well written for what it was. I just didn't find any new ideas in it. Maybe once you've read one dating book you've read them all? "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Celia | 11/1/2011

    " I've memorized pretty much every detail about dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin. It comes in super handy when my friends talk about their relationships. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Sasha | 8/20/2011

    " I really like this book. It was a good companion book to "He's Just Not that Into You". It is basically about not lowering your standards. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Becky | 7/5/2011

    " This wasn't as funy as "He's Just Not That Into You," and I was really hoping it would be. But it was an interesting read, at times. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Amy | 5/19/2011

    " This book is full of drawn out generalizations and pointless exercises but enmeshed in the text are a few enlightening isights about men and women in relationships. It's a quick read so I think its worth thumbing through the boring stuff to the more insightful parts. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Chelacreates | 12/27/2010

    " great book funnny and so true things you know but sometimes need to hear "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Christy | 9/17/2009

    " nothing like breaking up with someone right before v-day and finding comfort in a book. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Symya | 7/8/2009

    " This is a pretty good read. It is not as good as one would think it is. "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Hope | 5/29/2009

    " The book was well written for what it was. I just didn't find any new ideas in it. Maybe once you've read one dating book you've read them all? "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Sasha | 5/18/2009

    " I really like this book. It was a good companion book to "He's Just Not that Into You". It is basically about not lowering your standards. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Nimave | 5/17/2009

    " I found this an enjoyable and interesting book with lots of new and funny facts to learn and a good message behind it. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Dina | 3/25/2009

    " Very interesting way of looking at relationships. A fun read! "

  • 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5 Janell | 3/11/2009

    " I read this with a friend in college- funny read- but kind of stupid. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Becky | 2/11/2009

    " This wasn't as funy as "He's Just Not That Into You," and I was really hoping it would be. But it was an interesting read, at times. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Hillary | 12/4/2008

    " I have to admit, I liked this book better than "He's Just Not That Into You". This book was more about realizing the reasons you do what you do when it comes to guys; coming to terms with why you shouldn't lower your standards; and how to deal with it all. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Amy | 9/17/2008

    " This book is full of drawn out generalizations and pointless exercises but enmeshed in the text are a few enlightening isights about men and women in relationships. It's a quick read so I think its worth thumbing through the boring stuff to the more insightful parts. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Tif | 9/15/2008

    " Cute and I wish that some of the problems he talks about were my problems but a good look on how people think about dating and sex. "

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About the Author
Author Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.