A groundbreaking guide to dealing with difficult bosses by two bestselling experts In their bestseller Working with You Is Killing Me, Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster taught readers how to free themselves from emotional traps created by difficult colleagues. Now they apply their research and insights to the challenges of "toxic bosses." Sooner or later, we all work for someone we can't stand. When that happens, some people quit, some suffer in silence, and others cope by sulking, obsessing, avoiding, or retaliating. But it's better to take control by applying the four-step process in this book: • Detect: Am I crazy or is my boss driving me crazy? • Detach: Accept that you can't change your boss, but you can take back your power. • Depersonalize: Learn to take your supervisor's behavior less personally. • Deal: Devise a plan to get what you need, manage your boss, and move your career forward. Filled with concrete examples, this book will help readers take back their power from even the most challenging bad bosses- chronic critics, yellers, unconscious discriminators, control freaks, pathological liars, and more.
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"I'm trying to learn how to leave work and shut the work part of my brain off. It has good stuff for better managing one my employees and myself...managing up and managing down they call it. "
— Suzanne (5 out of 5 stars)
" made me realize that it wasn't my life that was so awful, but the people I was surrounded by dragging me down. "
— Amy, 7/7/2010" Some good tips, basically centered around distancing yourself emotionally from crazy people, whether at work or anywhere else. Ah, to put them in practice and stay clear of their traps! "
— Lisa, 6/29/2010" not much new or easily applicable "
— pri, 9/24/2009" This book offers good procedures from "unhooking" from the emotional snares at work. Good read! "
— Ginger, 7/10/2009" Good advice for when you start looking longingly at icepicks. "
— doug, 8/25/2008" This book was okay, not great, but it helped me see how and why a lot of people I work with (including myself) do the things they do and why and how I can work around it/ignore it. "
— Amberly, 2/24/2008" This is a great book for managers of other people. It gives practical how-to advice for dealing with difficult people and situations in the workplace. "
— Michelle, 1/17/2008" I have whole chapters memorized to get me through the day without hurting anyone "
— Melissa, 8/28/2007
Katherine Crowley is a Harvard-trained psychotherapist. She runs K Squared Enterprises, a training firm that helps clients manage difficult situations in the workplace, with Kathi Elster. They are coauthors of the New York Times bestseller Working With You Is Killing Me.
Kathi Elster is the coauthor of the New York Times bestseller Working with You Is Killing Me. She is a sought after business strategist, speaker, and consultant on workplace relationships.
Marguerite Gavin is a seasoned theater veteran, a five-time nominee for the prestigious Audie Award, and the winner of numerous AudioFile Earphones and Publishers Weekly awards. She has been an actor, director, and audiobook narrator for her entire professional career. With over four hundred titles to her credit, her narration spans nearly every genre, from nonfiction to mystery, science fiction, fantasy, romance, and children’s fiction. AudioFile magazine says, “Marguerite Gavin…has a sonorous voice, rich and full of emotion.”