" This book is one of the most difficult to read I have picked up in a long time. It is set in Israel in the 1960s to the 2000s. It explores the emotional depths of Ora, a woman who married one man, Ilan, had a son with him, Adam, had an affair with her husband's friend, Avram, and had a son with him, Ofer. The husband and his friend served in the Israeli army in the war with Egypt in the Sinai Penninsula, and the friend was captured and tortured. Both of her sons fulfilled their obligatory service in the IDF. When her younger son's service is about to end, Ora plans a hiking trip with him to celebrate. Instead, he reenlists in the IDF, and she takes the hiking trip with Avram, Ofer's father. Because Avram had never been part of Ofer's life, Ora tells him about Ofer's life during the hiking trip as a means of protecting Ofer from harm. She thinks that if she isn't home to get the news of his death, he won't die. The book is a roller coaster of emotion, the gut-wrenching, heart-wrenching kind. At the end, you learn that the author had two sons, both of whom served in the IDF and one of whom died in Lebanon - more than the ultimate irony because he had finished writing the book before his son died. The author obviously isn't a "hawk," and believes in the enduring bond between a parent and child. The book is stunning, but exhausting. "
— Lynn, 12/26/2013