Reflecting on forty years of matrimony, John Piper exalts the biblical meaning of marriage over its emotion, exhorting couples to keep their covenant for all the best reasons. Even in the days when people commonly stayed married “’til death do us part,” there has never been a generation whose view of marriage was high enough, says Pastor John Piper. That is all the more true in our casual times. Though personal selfishness and cultural bondage obstruct the wonder of God’s purpose, it is found in God’s Word, where his design can awaken a glorious vision capable of freeing every person from small, Christ-ignoring, romance-intoxicated views. As Piper explains in reflecting on forty years of matrimony: “Most foundationally, marriage is the doing of God. And ultimately, marriage is the display of God. It displays the covenant-keeping love between Christ and his people to the world in a way that no other event or institution does. Marriage, therefore, is not mainly about being in love. It’s mainly about telling the truth with our lives. And staying married is not about staying in love. It is about keeping covenant and putting the glory of Christ’s covenant-keeping love on display.” This Momentary Marriage unpacks the biblical vision, its unexpected contours, and its weighty implications for married, single, divorced, and remarried alike.
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"i definitely recommend this book to everyone who is questioning what marriage is all about..the first time i read thru this book I thought i will gain an understanding abt marriage (only). But it helped me to understand about God's love..& that is what we need "
— Ika (5 out of 5 stars)
“Theologically, this book exalts human marriage as a metaphor for the ultimate love story in Christ. Practically, it applies that glorious vision of grace to our daily experiences in marriage, singleness, parenthood, and the most universal of human realities-sin. This book opens our eyes and guides our feet with the grace of Christ.”
— Raymond C. Ortlund Jr., lead pastor, Immanuel Church, Nashville, Tennessee“This book is a treasure in an era when the common perspective on marriage has been more shaped by sitcoms and self-help books than by Scripture. Dr. Piper lifts our hearts and minds to God’s vision for marriage. Embracing God’s design and purposes for marriage can make our homes tastes of heaven.”
— Nancy Leigh DeMoss, author, Biblical Womanhood in the Home; radio host, Revive Our Hearts“Miss the radical message of this book and you’ll miss the joyful point of marriage. Heed the surprising call of this book and you’ll appreciate the sacred privilege of marriage that our culture fails to see.”
— Larry Crabb, Jr., Distinguished Scholar in Residence, Colorado Christian University“A highly original contribution to Christian teaching on marriage. A copy should be put into the hands of every couple preparing for lasting and loving wedlock.”
— Charles Colson, founder, Prison Fellowship and the Colson Center for Christian Worldview" Assigned for Precepts book group; would not have read it otherwise. Had read all on marriage I was going to read. Am glad I read it; he adds some deeper aspects I'd not been shown before. "
— Lee, 2/15/2014" Quite possibly the best book on Marriage that I have ever read. He is faithful to Scripture and draws from his personal experience in an amazing way. A must read for singles, married couples, widows and widowers, and for those who have divorced and are looking for healing! "
— Ruben, 2/11/2014" Piper repeatedly expresses how marriage is a covenant that exemplifies Christ's covenant with the church -- He is married to the church and will never break His covenant. This book is repitious in part, but the points he makes are so profound that they warrant repeating. "
— Holly, 2/6/2014" Every to be married or married couple should read this. "
— Alex, 1/28/2014" We got this book during our pre marital counseling and i really like it. It really makes you think about how marriage is an earth bound representation of our relationship with God. Very profound. "
— Cindy, 1/25/2014" This book completely changed my perspective of marriage and gave a better grasp of how it reflects Christ and the church "
— Shea, 1/24/2014" marriage is the image of the covenant-keeping love of God for His bride,the church. A very good book, it shows the biblical and real and ultimate meaning of marriage...it is momentary, but it's a parable of he permanence of God's love. "
— Emanuela, 1/14/2014" The first book I've read on marriage, and definitely a great one. The purpose of marriage as it was created, is to symbolize Christ's steadfast and unconditional love for his bride, the Church. This motivation alone is what will keep marriages alive. "
— Alan, 1/9/2014" One of my favorite marriage books. Piper is rooted in and glued to Scripture, most of this book coming out of Ephesians 5. This was a slow read for me because some paragraphs had to be re-read and chewed on for a while. "
— Dean, 1/4/2014" My favorite Piper book so far. I've heard and read a lot of good teaching on marriage, but I found plenty of encouragement and new insight here. "
— Angelyn, 1/3/2014" This is the best best best book you could ever read on covenant marriage and how to be married. Powerful read. A must read. "
— Stephanie, 1/1/2014" Didn't always agree 100% with everything he said... "
— Erin, 12/7/2013" A good book, but the first few chapters are a bit of a slog. It picks up as it goes along. "
— Denes, 11/26/2013" A good reflection on my own marriage, even after 21 years of experience. "
— Andrew, 11/14/2013" Excellent book. So helpful in hitting the reset button on the perspective of marriage. How our marriages picture the reality of Christ and His Bride, the Church and why that matters and what it means everyday. I highly recommend it! "
— Jonesey, 8/8/2013" This book is a great place to start for a good, workable understanding of biblical marriage. For those that may not be on board with Piper it should also be known that, here, you will find all his typical insight without much reformed talk so don't let that be an obstacle. "
— Rhyan, 6/25/2013" The best marriage book I have read. And the chapter on singleness is Biblically profound. "
— Henry, 4/10/2013" What a great way to think of marriage!!! "
— Stephanieandchad, 3/24/2013" Excellent book on marriage that clearly illustrates the purpose of marriage, to glorify God by portraying a picture of Christ and the church. This book has given me a new biblical perspective and has opened my eyes to God's covenant-keeping grace. "
— Michelle, 1/10/2013" A solid, thorough, biblical exposition of marriage. A little redundant at times, but I enjoyed it overall. I especially appreciated Piper's treatment of the subject of the wife's submission, showing the glory and beauty instead of focusing simply on the prescription and duty. "
— Sarah, 8/15/2012" The value of this book is in highlighting the "mystery" of marriage being a picture of Christ and the church. It emphasizes the most profound purpose of marriage. I plan to use this work in pre-marital counseling. "
— Jayson, 4/27/2012" Great book on seeing marriage first and foremost as a picture of Christ and the church. Marriage is a picture of the Gospel. "
— Jesse, 3/17/2012" Read this last year - will try to post a review shortly "
— Heidi, 12/29/2011" Helpful and thoroughly biblical. I appreciate that he articulates the picture of the gospel that marriage is to portray. I also really enjoyed his chapters on both divorce and singleness. This book gave me a greater biblical understanding of both marriage and singleness. "
— Jim, 11/17/2011" Read this last year - will try to post a review shortly "
— Heidi, 3/9/2011" I'm pretty much done. I've really enjoyed it. There is a lot of wisdom in these pages. Each chapter stands on its own. I think the intro to the book was the most eye opening to me of anything that was said in this book. I recommend it. "
— Alexander, 2/14/2011" This is the most Christ-centered book I've ever read on marriage. Fantastic! "
— Celess, 12/30/2010" Great explanation of God's reason for creating marriage as a metaphor for Jesus relationship with the church. Also has good explanations about Biblical headship and submission and is insightful about parenting. "
— Josh, 3/7/2010" The best marriage book I have read. And the chapter on singleness is Biblically profound. "
— Henry, 3/7/2010" Every to be married or married couple should read this. "
— Alex, 1/18/2010" Excellent book. So helpful in hitting the reset button on the perspective of marriage. How our marriages picture the reality of Christ and His Bride, the Church and why that matters and what it means everyday. I highly recommend it! "
— Jonesey, 11/6/2009" Piper repeatedly expresses how marriage is a covenant that exemplifies Christ's covenant with the church -- He is married to the church and will never break His covenant. This book is repitious in part, but the points he makes are so profound that they warrant repeating. "
— Holly, 10/26/2009John Piper (DTheol, University of Munich) is the founder and teacher of DesiringGod.org and the chancellor of Bethlehem College and Seminary. He served for thirty-three years as the senior pastor of Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and is the author of more than fifty books, including Desiring God, Don’t Waste Your Life, This Momentary Marriage, A Peculiar Glory, and Reading the Bible Supernaturally.
Grover Gardner (a.k.a. Tom Parker) is an award-winning narrator with over a thousand titles to his credit. Named one of the “Best Voices of the Century” and a Golden Voice by AudioFile magazine, he has won three prestigious Audie Awards, was chosen Narrator of the Year for 2005 by Publishers Weekly, and has earned more than thirty Earphones Awards.