Subsidence A daughter longs to guide her mother through the hardest of journeys of memory loss, paving a way with her own remembrance; for memory is an actor’s most powerful tool. Before the settling and subsidence of life, Hayley prepares to perform a show to honour her mother, Joan. Death is never convenient and despite the theatre being booked, posters printed, and tickets sold, it comes for Joan just before opening night. Subsidence gives grace to deep wounds laid bare as memory fails but love endures; deep, fathomless, patient love. A love that has come full circle, filled with hope and promise. The actor strides across grey days of grief, into the all-conquering silver spotlight of centerstage, to share a life well-loved and lived. Endorsement: 'Subsidence is a beautiful and tender rendering of memoir, driven by the author’s need to remember and honour her mother, who lived with dementia. O’Leary pulls the threads of memory together in a mesmerising weave: a gossamer spell. Her lived experience of theatre and her childhood with her mother are woven across timelines both past and present in this stunning experimental work. Subsidence is vital reading for those with loved ones experiencing memory loss.' – Anna Jacobson (Author of Amnesia Findings)
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"This is a poignant and elegant experimental memoir, narrated by actor, playwright and voice artist Helen O’Leary, about a mother’s decline into dementia and a daughter’s patient and steadfast care of the memories they share, then gradually don’t. It is as much a celebration of a rich, full and loving childhood and life as it is a rage against the inevitable deterioration wrought by a disease that steals an individual’s mental and physical capacities, and then their dignity. This sometimes funny, always compassionate and deeply human tribute to a mother lost but still seen is essential listening for anyone navigating a similar terrain. "
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Sally Piper (5 out of 5 stars)