Spousonomics: Using Economics to Master Love, Marriage, and Dirty Dishes Audiobook, by Paula Szuchman Play Audiobook Sample

Spousonomics: Using Economics to Master Love, Marriage, and Dirty Dishes Audiobook

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Read By: Renée Raudman Publisher: Random House Audio Listen Time: at 1.0x Speed 7.00 hours at 1.5x Speed 5.25 hours at 2.0x Speed Release Date: February 2011 Format: Unabridged Audiobook ISBN: 9780307876782

Quick Stats About this Audiobook

Total Audiobook Chapters:

99

Longest Chapter Length:

09:31 minutes

Shortest Chapter Length:

17 seconds

Average Chapter Length:

06:19 minutes

Audiobooks by this Author:

1

Publisher Description

Are you happy in your marriage—except for those weekly spats over who empties the dishwasher more often? Not a single complaint—unless you count the fact that you haven’t had sex since the Bush administration? Prepared to be there in sickness and in health—so long as it doesn’t mean compromising? Be honest: Ever lay awake thinking how much more fun married life used to be?   If you’re a member of the human race, then the answer is probably “yes” to all of the above. Marriage is a mysterious, often irrational business. Making it work till death do you part—or just till the end of the week—isn’t always easy. And no one ever handed you a user’s manual. Until now. With Spousonomics, Paula Szuchman and Jenny Anderson offer something new: a clear-eyed, rational route to demystifying your disagreements and improving your relationship. The key, they propose, is to think like an economist. That’s right: an economist. Economics is the study of resource allocation, after all. How do we—as partners in a society, a business, or a marriage—spend our limited time, money, and energy? And how do we allocate these resources most efficiently? Spousonomics answers these questions by taking classic economic concepts and applying them to the domestic front. For example:   • Arguing all night isn’t a sign of a communication breakdown; you’re just extremely loss-averse—and by refusing to give an inch, you’re risking even greater losses. • Stay late at the office, or come home for dinner? Be honest about your mother-in-law, or keep your mouth shut and smile? Let the cost-benefit analysis make the call. • Getting your spouse to clean the gutters isn’t a matter of nagging or guilt-tripping; it’s a question of finding the right incentives. • Being “too busy” to exercise or forgetting your anniversary (again): your overtaxed memory and hectic schedule aren’t to blame—moral hazard is. • And when it comes to having more sex: merely a question of supply and demand!   Spousonomics cuts through the noise of emotions, egos, and tired relationship clichés. Here, at last, is a smart, funny, refreshingly realistic, and deeply researched book that brings us one giant leap closer to solving the age-old riddle of a happy, healthy marriage.

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"This I liked. I enjoy applied economics (at least in terms appropriate for literate laypeople) and it was interesting to see game theory, "moral hazard" and loss aversion linked to marriage. The main findings from the book's presentation of econ research are not all that surprising (be transparent in communicating what you want, don't get complacent and remember you can never achieve your personal ideal standards for chores, etc., when another person is involved), but the presentation was novel, the case studies interesting and the authors' sense of humor enjoyable."

— Liz (4 out of 5 stars)

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  • “One of the most delightful, clever, and helpful books about marriage I’ve ever seen.”

    — Elizabeth Gilbert, New York Times bestselling author of Eat, Pray, Love
  • “Practical, compelling, and hilarious…The minute I finished this book, I started to experiment on my husband.”

    — Gretchen Rubin, New York Times bestelling author of The Happiness Project
  • “A convincing and creative case for how the dismal science can help reconcile marital disputes.”

    — Washington Post
  • “The book is grounded in solid research, makes economics entertaining, and might just save a marriage or two.”

    — Bloomberg
  • “This clever and hilarious book is really a user’s manual for improving relationships in marriage, family, business, and society in general.”

    — Miami Herald

Spousonomics Listener Reviews

Overall Performance: 3.23076923076923 out of 53.23076923076923 out of 53.23076923076923 out of 53.23076923076923 out of 53.23076923076923 out of 5 (3.23)
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  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Cute. Not as good as I thought it would be, but still cute. Economic principles apply to divvying up chores, making time for one another, etc. "

    — Megan, 2/19/2014
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " Unfortunately, this book was just too similar to _Freakonomics_ and especially to _Predictably Irrational_, with examples from marriages instead of other arenas. But the economic examples from studies, etc. were all familiar from the previous books, and although many of the marriage anecdotes were interesting, I didn't always feel that they really illustrated the economic principle that they were meant to. "

    — Shaheen, 2/18/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Really enjoyed this book. Similar in thought and tone to Freakonomics, which I loved, but applied to a household, or family setting. Some really good insight on a different way to view and solve some marital and family issues using economics. While I probably will not use all ideas, I think there are definitely some worth while solutions to typical marital and family strife. "

    — Rebecca, 2/11/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Loved it. This is a great book for anyone who is willing to compromise to make their marriage work, as well as people who don't understand economics. If only Dr. Geiss had taught economics in terms of relationships. Much easier to understand. "

    — Kristin, 2/10/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Interesting point of view, and a fun read. Definitely good to get the print version. I got the kindle version, which I regret because the call outs and tables didn't show up in the right formats. "

    — Dena, 2/7/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " I never did particularly well in any economics course I took in college, I got a lot out of what little I had learned and learned more from seeing how these concepts applied to marriage. It was a nice balance of paying hommage to the economic concepts and giving concrete real examples of marital situations with resolutions. If you are looking for some type of professional development course for how you engage as a spouse, this book could be for you. "

    — Ana, 1/27/2014
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " I wanted this book to be like John Gottman's work - a lot of research applied to relationships in an interesting and relevant way. I think this book wanted to be like Gottman's work as well, but it just didn't quite get there. The case studies were pretty good, but the authors have an annoying habit of trying to be clever and cutesy in their writing, presumably to make economics more palatable to womenfolk. I just found it irritating. "

    — Gillian, 1/17/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Enjoyable, engaging, and easy to read. I might need to buy a copy and keep it on my shelf for more direct application in the near future. "

    — Dave, 1/17/2014
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " If economics had been presented in such a fun way in high school/college, I might have been an economics major! This book is witty and useful for relationships in general. "

    — Emily, 12/29/2013
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Funny, sexist, good overview of ECON 101, entertaining.............. "

    — Suzie, 12/16/2013
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " Interesting but a little too economic-y to ever really hold my interest. "

    — Anna, 11/15/2013
  • Overall Performance: 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5

    " I thought based upon a radio interview I had heard that this might be a great twist on economic theory...one in the realm with freakonomics and outliers. I was sorely disappointed! It is not clever or unique. "

    — Samantha, 10/23/2013
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " An interesting concept. It was fun to read about the case studies and discover some of the reasons why different marriages/relationships succeed or fail. "

    — Leila, 5/16/2013
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " Very interesting and relatable advice, reading it here and there with other things. "

    — Marci, 5/27/2012
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " sometimes I read non-fiction because it's available immediately as an e-book at the public library! sometimes it's a book that mixes economics and relationship advice I already know! but that's okay. "

    — Merritt, 3/3/2012
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " I liked it. I *never* read self-help books except when I do. And I never like them. Until this one. If you're like me you already have all the answers but this book had some interesting angles and pleasant surprises. "

    — Laurie, 10/14/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Freaking brilliant. I'm pretty sure I learned more from this book about managing the common challenges of marriage than I did from our expensive premarital counseling sessions. Plus, I learned a few economic terms, too. Win-win. "

    — Clare, 8/27/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Applies basic economic principles to marriage. I learned some things about economics, in addition to relationships. Funny and full of real life stories. I loved that the authors believe marriage is a relationship worth working for. Some language and content may offend some readers. "

    — Betsy, 5/24/2011
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " I enjoyed the humor in this one. One doesn't necessarily think of a marriage as a Prisoner's Dilemma, but sometimes .... "

    — Laura, 4/17/2011
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " Very interesting and relatable advice, reading it here and there with other things. "

    — Rileygolden, 4/10/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " No-nonsense guide to achieving marital harmony using the principles of economics. "

    — Cynthia, 4/1/2011
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " The Spousonomics principle is that in marriage you should do what really works, rather than focusing on assumptions about who should do what, or even well-intentioned but impractical notions like "fairness". "

    — Emily, 3/31/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " I really enjoyed this book and it's approach to talking about marriage. By using economics as the groundwork, it steps away from the usual cliche approaches that books of this sort usually take. And the case studies were well chosen. "

    — Mdraeger, 3/22/2011
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Interesting read, but the case study format felt weak and repetitive. "

    — Laura, 3/18/2011
  • Overall Performance: 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5

    " Pareto efficiency and comparative advantage applied to household chores: this was right up my alley. "

    — Cat, 3/16/2011
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " It was a great book about the mechanics of a relationship and its pitfalls. It was a good book in that it didn't go into the emotions of marriage but what could be done if looked at problems objectively. I definately recommend this one. "

    — Alicia, 3/15/2011

About the Authors

Paula Szuchman is a page-one editor at The Wall Street Journal, where she was previously a reporter covering the travel industry, college internships, and roller coasters. She lives with her husband and daughter in Brooklyn, New York.

Jenny Anderson is a New York Times reporter who spent years covering Wall Street and won a Gerald Loeb Award for her coverage of Merrill Lynch. She currently writes on education and lives with her husband and daughter in Manhattan.

About Renée Raudman

Renée Raudman is an actor and Earphones Award–winning audiobook narrator. She has performed on film, television, radio, and on stage and can also be heard in several video games and hundreds of television and radio voice-overs.