It isn't easy being a guy today. Maybe it never has been easy, but today the challenges to guys who want to be holy, who want to honor God with their minds and bodies, seem tougher than ever. You live at a time and in a culture that seems given over to sex.
It is all around you and you can hardly avoid its lure. Everywhere you go today you are faced with temptations and, if you are like most young men, have begun to give in to them. Perhaps you have only just begun looking at pornography or perhaps you've been doing so for many years. Perhaps you are struggling with masturbation, not really wanting to indulge yourself but finding that it's a whole lot tougher to quit than you would have thought. Perhaps you are finding that, more than ever, sex is filling your mind and impacting your heart.
This booklet is intended specifically for young men-those who are not yet married but who hope to be married in the future. Maybe you are still single or maybe you have found the woman of your dreams and are close to settling down and building a life with her. Maybe she still seems a long way off. No matter your situation, I want to use this short guide to help you discover God's plan for sex and sexuality.
I want to help you track down the lies you have believed about sex and I want to help you replace them with truth that comes straight from God, the one who created sex for us.
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"Solid booklet with really helpful and fresh thoughts on the battle against porn and lust. Worth reading for sure, I appreciate his perspective and his value of the Word as opposed to psychology or even other respected opinions. "
— Anthony (4 out of 5 stars)
"In an age when sex is worshiped as a god, a little book like this can go a long way to helping men overcome sexual addiction."- Pastor Mark Driscoll, Mars Hill Church
"Online pornography is not just a problem for Christian men; it is THE problem. Many men, young and old, in our churches need Sexual Detox. Challies offers practical, doable and, above all, gospel-centered hope for men. I want every man I serve and all the guys on our staff to read this book."-Tedd Tripp, Pastor, and author of Shepherding a Child's Heart
"Tim Challies strikes just the right balance in this necessary work. His assessment of the sexual epidemic in our culture is sober but not without hope. His advice is practical but avoids a checklist mentality. His discussion of sexual sin is frank without being inappropriate. This book will be a valuable resource."- Kevin DeYoung, Pastor and author
" Man up, guys. The temptation is universal. The Gospel is good enough to help. This books shows us. "
— Ryan, 11/24/2013" A very helpful approach to a difficult topic. "
— Kevin, 8/14/2013" Really good base book to start out with. Definitely recommend if you struggle with this! "
— Andrew, 6/7/2012" Solid booklet with really helpful and fresh thoughts on the battle against porn and lust. Worth reading for sure, I appreciate his perspective and his value of the Word as opposed to psychology or even other respected opinions. "
— Anthony, 5/6/2012" Very helpful little book. "
— Luke, 1/24/2012" This is a short read, but a good one. Challis seemed too rushed on some of his points, but I feel the main thesis was well argued. Essentially, this generation of men must learn to replace their pornographic eyes with the eyes of a selfless loving God when viewing their brides. "
— Skipper, 12/17/2010
Tim Challies is a blogger, author, web designer, book reviewer, and pastor. His books include The Discipline of Spiritual Discernment and The Next Story.