" I am aware this is a fictional story with historical elements intertwined, but I find the story to be predictable and realistic. I have spent some time in Japan (3 years). Based on this experience, I find it very difficult to read this book and pretend that Michi would give an American that she just met one year prior to her death such a rich part of her Asian culture. It was also hard to believe that Barbara would not have wondered why Michi did not give Seiji, her Asian colleagues, the school, or the Museum in Hiroshima her writings before giving it to Barbara. Even Japanese people who have embraced the American way of life still practice their traditions and embrace their culture emphatically and for her to give Barbara her tansu that her father built and the writings of her mother does not make common sense to me. Next, her relationship with Seiji. In Japan, a Japanese man with an American women was rare in 1990(my last year there). Again, I could not wrap my mind around this one. In 3 years I did not see one occurence of a Japanese man with an American woman unless it was a paid, very discreet arrangement. But Japanese women with men of other races and cultures was a routine occurence. The few Japanese women I had the privilege to know who dated and/or married outside of their culture had difficulties with their familial relationships. "
— Karen, 2/13/2014