Ordinary Disasters: How I Stopped Being a Model Minority Audiobook

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• Anne Anlin Cheng has written a book on the brink. She stares into her own abyss, fearlessly. But she also gazes into the deep well of the American soul from where racism and sexism comes, sometimes manifest in unspeakable violence, oftentimes through microaggressions that have worn down her body and spirit. But if her body has been broken, its rubble serves to hone the sharpness of her mind, its keen edge evident throughout this exhilarating work.

  — Viet Thanh Nguyen, Pulitzer Prize-winning author of The Sympathizer and A Man of Two Faces

• "There is something fearless in the way Anne Anlin Cheng turns a brilliant analytic intelligence on the tender, intimate, ordinary stuff of living—the relation of husband and wife, mother and child, the relation of our daily selves to our mortality—that is very beautiful and a little scary. It’s a book that opens up and opens up, goes deeper when you think it has willed and reflected its way to its depths.

  — Robert Hass, Poet Laureate of the U.S.

• “Ordinary Disasters is an essay collection that will dazzle, delight, and intrigue its readers. In prose that is as vulnerable as it is exquisite, Anne Anlin Cheng manages to get at the heart of the human experience. Readers will find themselves identifying with both the tender, personal moments that the author lovingly reveals, as well as the larger cultural issues that have shaped her distinctly complex experiences on earth. This is a book about love, family, community, work, motherhood, womanhood, daughterhood, and marriage. You will enter this book and find a companion in its fascinating stories. You will close its covers with a greater understanding of what it means to be a person in this day and age—actually, any age.

  — Emily Bernard, author of Black Is the Body

• “Anne Anlin Cheng, one of the nation’s most eloquent scholars of race and gender, has given us a luminous gift in Ordinary Disasters—a coordinated flight of inner stories that wheel and dive through history, pain, love, consciousness, art, childhood, parenthood, the Asian experience in America, the conundrums of time and mortality.  A powerful, courageous book, extremely artful, maybe her best.

  — Richard Preston, author of Wild Trees and The Hot Zone

• "There is something fearless in the way Anne Anlin Cheng turns a brilliant analytic intelligence on the tender, intimate, ordinary stuff of living—the relation of husband and wife, mother and child, the relation of our daily selves to our mortality—that is very beautiful and a little scary. It’s a book that opens up and opens up, goes deeper when you think it has willed and reflected its way to its depths.

  — Robert Hass, former Poet Laureate of the U.S.

• “Ordinary Disasters is an essay collection that will dazzle, delight, and intrigue its readers. In prose that is as vulnerable as it is exquisite, Anne Anlin Cheng manages to get at the heart of the human experience. Readers will find themselves identifying with both the tender, personal moments that the author lovingly reveals, as well as the larger cultural issues that have shaped her distinctly complex experiences on earth. This is a book about love, family, community, work, motherhood, womanhood, daughterhood, and marriage. You will enter this book and find a companion in its fascinating stories. You will close its covers with a greater understanding of what it means to be a person in this day and age—actually, any age.

  — Emily Bernard, author of Black Is the Body

• “Ordinary Disasters is one of those rare books that makes you think, feel, think again, and feel again. Anne Anlin Cheng writes about history and culture with sharp insight, and she writes about personal life with its many private joys and pains with delicacy and intimacy. The book is an elegant and courageous record of not only one individual’s story but also a generation’s experience and memory.

  — Yiyun Li, author of The Book of Goose“Anne Anlin Cheng, one of the nation’s most eloquent scholars of race and gender, has given us a luminous gift in Ordinary Disasters—a coordinated flight of inner stories that wheel and dive through history, pain, love, consciousness, art, childhood, parenthood, the Asian experience in America, the conundrums of time and mortality.  A powerful, courageous book, extremely artful, maybe her best.

• “How lucky we are, how blessed, to behold the voice, heart, and mind of the ingenious Anne Anlin Cheng. I’ve long been familiar with her virtuosity, and have dearly anticipated this unflinchingly erudite and deeply felt collection of personal and critical essays. With power, aplomb, and irreverent wit, Cheng investigates the alienating and illuminating experiences of immigration, motherhood, grief, intimacy, beauty, daughterhood, illness, race, academia, and the state of being a ‘stranger.’ The complexity of being an Asian American woman also takes center stage in this book, as one of the world’s foremost thinkers helps us grapple with the contradictions of navigating this beautiful, unbeautiful life.

  — Sally Wen Mao, author of Ninetails

• From one of our most incisive scholars in race studies, Anne Anlin Cheng has written a memoir that is both astonishingly vulnerable and cutting. For the first time, she turns her brilliant acumen towards herself, using her experiences as daughter, wife, mother, divorcee, cancer patient, student, and professor to explore the painful and subtle vicissitudes of the Asian American experience. With exacting poetic rigor, Cheng unseams the psychosis that internalized the model minority myth. Her scholarly attention—that is distilled into such pleasurable clarity—to Asian female sexuality is especially a crucial contribution to the conversation on race in America. I am grateful for Ordinary Disasters which I am confident will become a classic.

  — Cathy Park Hong, New York Times bestselling author of Minor Feelings