Love Is a Mix Tape: Life and Loss, One Song at a Time Audiobook, by Rob Sheffield Play Audiobook Sample

Love Is a Mix Tape: Life and Loss, One Song at a Time Audiobook

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Read By: Rob Sheffield Publisher: Random House Audio Listen Time: at 1.0x Speed 3.83 hours at 1.5x Speed 2.88 hours at 2.0x Speed Release Date: January 2007 Format: Unabridged Audiobook ISBN: 9780739333532

Quick Stats About this Audiobook

Total Audiobook Chapters:

89

Longest Chapter Length:

05:51 minutes

Shortest Chapter Length:

01:24 minutes

Average Chapter Length:

03:50 minutes

Audiobooks by this Author:

5

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Publisher Description

“The happiest, saddest, sweetest book about rock ‘n’ roll that I’ve ever experienced.”—Chuck Klosterman   Mix tapes: We all have our favorites. Stick one into a deck, press play, and you’re instantly transported to another time in your life. For Rob Sheffield, that time was one of miraculous love and unbearable grief. A time that spanned seven years, it started when he met the girl of his dreams, and ended when he watched her die in his arms. Using the listings of fifteen of his favorite mix tapes, Rob shows that the power of music to build a bridge between people is stronger than death. You’ll read these words, perhaps surprisingly, with joy in your heart and a song in your head—the one that comes to mind when you think of the love of your life.   Praise for Love is a Mixtape   “A memoir that manages, no small feat, to be funny and beautifully forlorn at the same time.”The New York Times Book Review   “Humorous, heartbreaking, and heroic.”Entertainment Weekly   “The finest lines ever written about rock ‘n’ roll . . . Like that song on the radio, every word of Rob’s book is true. Love is a mix tape.”Rolling Stone   “Many of us use pop culture as a mirror of our emotional lives, but Sheffield happily walks right through the looking glass.”Los Angeles Times   “Sheffield writes with such aching remembering, you feel like you are invading his privacy . . . and it’s the truth of those details that make this memoir so touching.”Newsweek

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"I knew I was destined to love this book the first time I touched it at the library. It combines two of my favorite things: love and music (and mixes, no less). I found myself reading the track listing at the beginning of the next chapter even if I wasn't planning on reading it right away. The last few chapters were depressing and harder to get through (and understandably so), but overall the story gave me a better appreciation of life. The message that we need to cherish the relationships we have because we don't know how long we will have them shined through. It also reaffirmed my belief that I will never be able to marry a man who doesn't share my passion for music. And it made me want to make a mix, but what doesn't make me want to make a mix?"

— Laura (4 out of 5 stars)

Love Is a Mix Tape Listener Reviews

Overall Performance: 3.42424242424242 out of 53.42424242424242 out of 53.42424242424242 out of 53.42424242424242 out of 53.42424242424242 out of 5 (3.42)
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  • Overall Performance: 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5 Narration Rating: 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5 Story Rating: 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5

    — 2/9/2023
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Engaging with lots of great music selections (Each chapter began with a mix tape collection). A sensitive portrayal of grief. I can't quite put my finger on why I think of it as "lightweight," but there you have it. Still, it's a fast read with some good moments. "

    — Joanie, 2/18/2014
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " Sheffield's love of music is evident, but his tastes are incredibly bland and pedestrian. Most of his work has come during the most moribund period of both rock history (he ludicrously claims the 90s as the best decade in rock based on his love for Pavement, the band he more ludicrously claims made the Feelies dispensable) and for the most moribund magazine of the period: Rolling Stone. His tale of woe and the transformative power of love is thus a mixed bag, inspiring us with the music that helped him get through the turmoil, and causing us to cringe whenever he attempts to use drugs, baseball, or film as metaphor. In the end, his fey and precious tastes paint him as a twee, modern hipster who never really opened up to the world in the way he suggested--only to that one particular girl--and that is a precious and cliched tale. Worse, he plays the tragedy for all its worth by suggesting that the doctor told him that his wife was 'young and healthy' and had merely been unlucky to die of a pulmonary embolism. This might have been easy to swallow if he hadn't shown the couple--despite huge efforts to minimize it--as extremely unhealthy, both being chain smokers, borderline alcoholics, and junk food junkies (Renee had started to become obese) whose idea of exercise was to watch the dog take a crap in the back yard. Despite whatever genetic predisposition she may have had to have this episode, there is no doubt in the minds of any who know biology that environment played a huge role in her demise. She was not, as he suggests, 'young and healthy' and he consequently loses our sympathy for his tragic tale. "

    — Ron, 2/17/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Surprisingly depressing, but still very good. I enjoy the way he mixed in music references. "

    — Dx-xb, 2/12/2014
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Not in-love with this yet. Maybe it's a slow start. "

    — Brandi, 2/6/2014
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " You don't have to be a music buff or know everything about the 80's, punk rock or early 90's bands to love this book. It's funny, fast-paced and enveloping. "

    — Allie, 2/1/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Fantastic book for all music lovers. Anyone who appreciates the way their favorite songs and musicians can bring back memories and emotions that might otherwise be forgotten, will love this book. "

    — Jill, 1/22/2014
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Cute read if you were born in the late 60s/early 70s and like music. "

    — Jennyb, 1/20/2014
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " This book is perfect for all music lovers. It can be sad and funny at the same time. He writes so well, like the kind of guy I'd have a crush on; socially awkward, quiet, music geek. "

    — Annaliese, 1/18/2014
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " I was really excited about this book, but unfortunately, it just couldn't pull me in and I lost interest and gave up. "

    — Meg, 1/17/2014
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " I laughed and I cried. This book was great from the very first line. I had high expectations of this book and they were definitely met. If you love music, read this book. If you love love, read this book. "

    — Caitlin, 1/10/2014
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " loved this book written by a self depreciating romantic infused with great music, specifically from the 90s. can't wait to read his other book. "

    — Holly, 1/3/2014
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " One of the best books I read in 2009. "

    — Cassandra, 12/21/2013
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " A touching memoir about love and music. "

    — Shannon, 12/19/2013
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " This was much better than I expected. About becoming a widower at a young age. Quick read. "

    — Kathleen, 11/25/2013
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " A little depressing, but like how he using songs to tell his story "

    — Jessica, 11/9/2013
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " It has a nice conceit - mix tapes as the structure of the book and of life. The best parts were him dealing with the death of his wife, while their courtship, marriage, and his early life all felt too ironic, jokey, and self-conscious. Also, the music "criticism" is populist, but random. "

    — Devin, 6/25/2013
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " I could relate to some of this book quite well, and it did make me laugh, but overall I found myself a little bit bored. "

    — Amy, 6/9/2013
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " For anyone who has ever made a mix tape, particularly in hopes of snagging a significant other - this is a must read book! I loved this book, I can't wait to read it again. "

    — Jessica, 2/2/2013
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " This isn't just a book, it's real love in paper form. "

    — Shauna, 1/10/2013
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " If you've ever lost someone important to you and want to feel like you're not crazy, read this book. It's not the best writing, and he could have developed his story better, but it's honest and heartfelt--which goes a long way toward making a book last. "

    — Katie, 9/9/2012
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Sheffield writes for Rolling Stone and music mags and this is a memoir about his relationship with his wife set to the music of the 90's, which I am all about and while I read it I went back to my middle school mix on my ipod a lot. "

    — Hae-In, 5/17/2012
  • Overall Performance: 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5

    " did not like this at all, can't believe I finished it. maybe it was a generational or gender thing. "

    — Terri, 4/3/2012
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " Sometimes you lie in a strange room, in a strange person's home, and you feel yourself bending out of shape. Melting, touching something hot, something that warps you in drastic and probably irreversible ways you won't get to take stock of until it's too late. (pg. 63) "

    — Kristin, 6/30/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " I laughed, I cried, it was better than.... "

    — Ariele, 5/17/2011
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " Absolutely one of the bests. completely dilutes the whole modern day music and actually gives us (the youth) thought on just how significant classic music was and how it can bring happiness to each and every individual. "

    — Hala, 5/15/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " Initially it is hard not to confuse Rob Sheffield with Rob Gordon, but as his story of loss and immense grief unfolds, this thought fades. Started out as a 3, because of the Nick Hornby comparisons, but in the end I'm giving it a 4. So heartbreaking. "

    — Shona, 5/10/2011
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " It was okay. I felt the grief but the stories were sort of contrived. "

    — Jennifer, 4/27/2011
  • Overall Performance: 2 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 52 out of 5

    " I had high hopes for this but what i thought would be a nostalgic music recount was a widows mourning... and i don't mean to take anything away form that, learning about Renee was nice, but i thought it would be different. 2/5 "

    — Misha, 4/25/2011
  • Overall Performance: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5

    " Engaging with lots of great music selections (Each chapter began with a mix tape collection). A sensitive portrayal of grief. I can't quite put my finger on why I think of it as "lightweight," but there you have it. Still, it's a fast read with some good moments. "

    — Joanie, 4/14/2011
  • Overall Performance: 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5

    " Thought this would be a quick throwaway read. Not so, dear readers. Rob Sheffield will make you cry. Read and see if you don't wish someone loved you like that. "

    — Donna, 4/14/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " LOVED IT!!! except for some cussing - grr. "

    — Sherry, 4/14/2011
  • Overall Performance: 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5

    " I don't follow Sheffield's writing- so I don't know if he fits the mould of pretentious rock journalist- but this story is wonderful. the guy knows his stuff, and it is both sweet and incredibly jarring. puke, I know. "

    — Sarah, 4/6/2011

About Rob Sheffield

Rob Sheffield has been a music journalist for more than twenty years. He is a contributing editor at Rolling Stone, where he writes about music, television, and pop culture, and regularly appears on MTV and VH1. He is the author of the national bestseller Love Is a Mix Tape, Talking to Girls about Duran Duran, Turn Around Bright Eyes, On Bowie, and Dreaming the Beatles.