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How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love Audiobook

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Read By: Julie Krafchick, Yue Xu Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio Listen Time: at 1.0x Speed 6.50 hours at 1.5x Speed 4.88 hours at 2.0x Speed Release Date: January 2025 Format: Unabridged Audiobook ISBN: 9781797185910

Quick Stats About this Audiobook

Total Audiobook Chapters:

18

Longest Chapter Length:

60:42 minutes

Shortest Chapter Length:

10 seconds

Average Chapter Length:

32:19 minutes

Audiobooks by this Author:

1

Publisher Description

Break free from the traps of modern dating and learn how to take control of your love life in this practical, compassionate guide that will help you find your person and become your most dateable self.

As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world, and empowering the people within it, their purpose and passion. With all the challenges and frustrations that come from modern dating, the question they receive from daters time and again: Am I just not dateable?

From speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have come to realize that everyone is dateable—it’s just the modern dating norms that keep us from falling in love. Contrary to other dating books, How to Be Dateable isn’t a playbook of rules to follow or methods to hack your love life. But it will help you identify your dating strong suits and what’s getting in your way.

To help personalize your experience and more closely identify which pieces of advice work best for you, Julie and Yue have developed a dating archetype quiz that sorts you into different dating types: Achiever, Dreamer, Energizer, Maverick, and Thinker.

With their dating archetype in mind, in Part 1 of How to Be Dateable you will first learn to identify common dating traps that keep modern daters in a perpetual cycle of singledom: The Expectation of Love On Demand, The Settling Paradox, The Validation Trap, and Relationship Chicken. After learning to recognize and avoid these traps, in Part 2, you start learning how to fall in love by Letting Go, Gaining Clarity, Showing Up, Investing Appropriately, and Persevering through it All. Within the book, there are case studies, personal anecdotes, exercises, and self-assuring mantras designed to help daters understand their core strengths and date on your terms.

Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will help you create a dating life filled with joy, fulfillment, extraordinary connections, and love.

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“Given the complexities and challenges of today’s modern dating landscape, confidence in dating skills is a must. With concrete tips and real-world examples, How To Be Dateable delivers on their promise to ‘stop falling for the traps’ and ‘start falling in love.’”

— Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, faculty at Northwestern University, author of Love Every Day, and host of the podcast Reimagining Love

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About the Authors

Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are experts on dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They are the cohosts and creators of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, the Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They are also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julile Krafchick brings her background working in the Silicon Valley tech scene for over a decade, as a qualitative researcher and app designer with an emphasis on human-centered design. Yue Xu shares her experience as a dating coach, working with clients all over the world, and her background as a television host and producer. Together you can find them at DateablePodcast.com and @DateablePodcast.