A guide to help Christians parent their children with grace and an emphasis on the cross. How are parents to raise children so they don't become Pharisees (legalists) or prodigals (rebels)? It's all about grace-filled, gospel-driven parenting, says the mother/daughter team of Elyse Fitzpatrick and Jessica Thompson. Christian parents, in their desire to raise godly children, can tend toward rule-centered discipline. There is, however, a far more effective method--a grace-motivated approach that begins with the glorious truth of God's love for sinners. In Give Them Grace, parents will learn how to connect the benefits of the cross--especially regeneration, adoption, and justification--to their children's daily lives. Chapters address topics such as our inability to follow the law perfectly, God's forgiveness and love displayed at the cross, and what true heart obedience looks like. Fitzpatrick and Thompson also discuss discipline, dealing with popular culture, and evangelism as a way of life. Parents will find this book a great resource for raising grace-filled, Jesus-loving kids.
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"This book was a breath of fresh air from other parenting books. Do not get me wrong, I enjoy a variety of books on parenting, but this one was different. From the beginning Elyse and Jessica are clear that we cannot parent alone. Without Christ in our lives it is impossible! Though the title appears to imply that we should just give grace all of the time and never discipline, it is quite the opposite. It was beautiful to see how we give them grace all the time and discipline. They go hand in hand. Why? Because we love them. God loves His children and He gives grace and discipline to His children, therefore we do the same to ours. I loved this book as it continually keeps the focus where it belongs, on Jesus and His work on the cross."
— Emmie (5 out of 5 stars)
“It is so encouraging to read a parenting book that points parents to the grace of the cross and shows them how to be instruments of that grace in the lives of their children.”
— Paul Tripp, President, Paul Tripp Ministries“Elyse Fitzpatrick and her daughter, Jessica, provide a great tool to guide parents down the road of gracious parenting. I commend it to you.”
— James MacDonald, Senior Pastor, Harvest Bible Chapel“Elyse Fitzpatrick continues her never-ending quest to churn out grace-filled, Christ-centered, gospel-saturated books. And now she’s done it again with her daughter, Jessica, coauthoring this excellent parenting book!”
— Deepak Reju, Pastor of Biblical Counseling and Families, Capitol Hill Baptist Church“Grace for both parents and children flows through the pages of this book; I only wish I had read it at the beginning of my parenting instead of the end.”
— Rose Marie Miller, author of From Fear to Freedom" Best parenting book I ever read. Need to keep it and refer back to it from time to time... "
— Nicole, 2/4/2014" Have to admit that I skimmed and skipped a lit if it but it had some VERY impotent insights into parenting. "
— Phil, 2/3/2014" continues to confirm the impression that these neo-Calvinist, Monergist teachers of parenting simply serve to perpetuate spiritual abuse. "
— Amy, 1/19/2014" Great book on parenting - share the Gospel with your kids as often as you can in order to point them to Jesus! "
— John, 12/26/2013" Love the premise, and charts and examples, but skimmed the book because it was so wordy and disjointed. "
— Laura, 12/24/2013" A good focus on rearing children with the gospel, not just leagalism / moralism which comes so natural to many (myself included) "
— Kevin, 12/20/2013" This book gave me much to think about. I thought that some of the authors explainations to small children were too long. However, I do want to teach my children about grace and why we try to live the way we do. It did give me ideas. "
— Wishing4, 12/4/2013" Fantastic and freeing book. No more guilt parenting. A fantastic read for any believer, regardless of whether you have children or not. "
— Becky, 11/26/2013" This was an awesome book, even if I'm not a parent. Want to remember this one if I have a family some day! "
— Amanda, 7/3/2013" I don't usually read parenting books but I made an exception for this one as it was recommended by someone I trust. I loved it! I wish I had had this when my girls were young. "
— LuAnne, 5/7/2013" This is a great book for parents. Fathers should read this before having children if not its never too late to start understanding your children and give them grace. "
— Matt, 4/5/2013" So good to read--so hard to put to practice. "
— Carol, 5/31/2012" Best book on parenting from a Christian perspective I have read (and I've read several...) "
— Jonathan, 4/29/2012" Very practical. Loved the part about the prodigal son and the older son. "
— Greg.joliegmail.com, 11/23/2011Elyse Fitzpatrick is a nationally sought-after speaker and author, speaking at the Gospel Coalition’s conference and Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth’s Revive Our Hearts. She holds a certificate in biblical counseling and has an MA in biblical counseling from Trinity Theological Seminary. She has authored over twenty books and lives in California with her husband, Phil.
Tavia Gilbert is an acclaimed narrator of more than four hundred full-cast and multivoice audiobooks for virtually every publisher in the industry. Named the 2018 Voice of Choice by Booklist magazine, she is also winner of the prestigious Audie Award for best narration. She has earned numerous Earphones Awards, a Voice Arts Award, and a Listen-Up Award. Audible.com has named her a Genre-Defining Narrator: Master of Memoir. In addition to voice acting, she is an accomplished producer, singer, and theater actor. She is also a producer, singer, photographer, and a writer, as well as the cofounder of a feminist publishing company, Animal Mineral.