A witty, tender memoir of a son's journey home to care for his irascible mother-a tale of secrets, silences, and enduring love When George Hodgman leaves Manhattan for his hometown of Paris, Missouri, he finds himself-an unlikely caretaker and near-lethal cook-in a head-on collision with his aging mother, Betty, a woman of wit and will. Will George lure her into assisted living? When hell freezes over. He can't bring himself to force her from the home both treasure-the place where his father's voice lingers, the scene of shared jokes, skirmishes, and, behind the dusty antiques, a rarely acknowledged conflict: Betty, who speaks her mind but cannot quite reveal her heart, has never really accepted the fact that her son is gay. As these two unforgettable characters try to bring their different worlds together, Hodgman reveals the challenges of Betty's life and his own struggle for self-respect, moving readers from their small town-crumbling but still colorful-to the star-studded corridors of Vanity Fair. Evocative of The End of Your Life Book Club and The Tender Bar, Hodgman's debut is both an indelible portrait of a family and an exquisitely told tale of a prodigal son's return.
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“The idea of a cultured gay man leaving New York City to care for his agingmother in Paris, Missouri, is already funny, and George Hodgman reaps thathumor with great charm. But then he plunges deep, examining the warm yetfraught relationship between mother and son with profound insight andunderstanding…A beautiful book about thestrange plenitude that comes from finally letting go of everything.”
— Alison Bechdel, cartoonist and author of Fun Home
“A humorous, bittersweet account of Hodgman’s caring for his aging, irascible mother.”
— Vanity Fair“A lovely memoir…You won’t finish this tale dry eyed.”
— People“A remarkable, laugh-out-loud book…Rarely has the subject of elder care produced such droll human comedy or a heroine quite on the mettlesome order of Betty Baker Hodgman. For as much as the book works on several levels (as a meditation on belonging, as a story of growing up gay and the psychic cost of silence, as metaphor for recovery), it is the strong-willed Betty who shines through.”
— New York Times“Continuous low-key humor infuses the memoir with refreshing levity, without diminishing the emotional toll of being the sole health-care provider to an elderly parent. This is an emotionally honest portrayal of a son’s secrets and his unending devotion to his mother.”
— Publishers Weekly“Narrator Jeff Woodman’s expressive performance creates an intimate connection between listeners and memoirist George Hodgman…Woodman tunes his voice to match the many emotions of this complex, bittersweet story…Both dialogue and narrative shine in Woodman’s capable hands. Listeners will want to keep tissues handy.”
— AudioFile“The book is instantly engaging, as Hodgman has a wry sense of humor, one he uses to keep others at a distance. Yet the book is also devastatingly touching…A tender, resolute look at a place, literal and figurative, baby boomers might find themselves.”
— Booklist“Movingly honest, at times droll, and ultimately poignant.”
— Kirkus Reviews“Bettyville is an exquisitely written memoir about the complicated but deeply genuine love a son feels for his courageous, headstrong, vulnerable mother in the twilight of her life. George Hodgman is stunningly clear-eyed and yet so darned big-hearted. Bettyville is just wonderful.”
— Jeannette Walls, author of The Glass Castle“A gorgeous memoir. I was completely engaged, not just because of George Hodgman’s great ear and his sense of timing, but because he delivers Betty to us in such a manner that she steps off the page. I felt transported to a better place…[with] lessons about life and love that I will carry away.”
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George Hodgman is a veteran magazine and book editor who has worked at Simon & Schuster, Vanity Fair, and Talk magazine. His writing has appeared in Entertainment Weekly, Interview, W, and Harper’s Bazaar, among other publications. He lives in New York City and Paris, Missouri.
Jeff Woodman is an actor and narrator. He is a winner of the prestigious Audie Award and a six-time finalist. He has received twenty Earphones Awards and was named the 2008 Best Voice in Fiction & Classics, as well as one of the Fifty Greatest Voices of the Century by AudioFile magazine. As an actor, he originated the title role in Tennessee Williams’ The Notebook of Trigorin and won the S. F. Critics’ Circle Award for his performance in An Ideal Husband. In addition to numerous theater credits on and off Broadway, his television work includes Sex and the City, Law & Order, and Cosby.