Tony Webster and his clique first met Adrian Finn at school. Sex hungry and book hungry, they would navigate the girl-less sixth form together, trading in affectations, in-jokes, rumor, and wit. Maybe Adrian was a little more serious than the others, certainly more intelligent, but they all swore to stay friends for life.
Now Tony is retired. He has had a career, a single marriage, and a calm divorce. He certainly has never tried to hurt anybody. Memory, though, is imperfect. It can always throw up surprises, as a lawyer’s letter is about to prove.
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"In 1992, I spent the last of my Greek drachma to purchase Before She Met Me by Julian Barnes. I spent a long boat ride from Greece to Italy with no money. There have been a few other Barnes books I've picked up but never finished over the years. I really enjoyed this--it made me wistful and sad. (Enjoyed?). I'm glad I read it..."
— Michelle (4 out of 5 stars)
“Probes the mysteries of how we remember and our impulse to redact, correct—and sometimes entirely erase—our pasts.”
— Vogue“An elegantly composed, quietly devastating tale.”
— NPR“It manages to create genuine suspense as a sort of psychological detective story.”
— New York Times“A highly wrought meditation on aging, memory and regret.”
— The Guardian (London)" I don't think i'm particularly dense, but I don't get this book. Barnes is clearly an excellent writer, his prose was almost musical in places, but I can't buy into the characters. I couldn't see the attraction between Tony and Veronica, and as for Tony "not getting it," maybe if she'd ever had a conversation with him, he would have. I'm glad this was a quick book. "
— Lisa, 2/20/2014" I enjoyed this, although the story is not strong. "
— Jan, 2/17/2014" I actually read this twice. After I finished it the second time (almost back-to-back), I upped the star value to 5. A book has to really capture me to get a 5. This is also the only book that beckoned me back for a re-read two weeks after finishing it. Excellent. "
— Jeri, 2/16/2014" the last thirty or forty pages are captivating. "
— Velma, 2/7/2014" Blah. Too verbose. Boring. Can't believe I finished it. At least it was short. "
— Erica, 1/11/2014" Really good period piece, the descriptions were amazing , like watching a movie "
— Hilary, 1/4/2014" kleine review wie gehabt, aufm blog... "
— manfred, 1/1/2014" A depressing story about a clueless male. Perfect material for the Hallmark Channel. Superior in that the narrator's voice is clearly the main character's and not the author's mixing into his creation. But still, not a fun read. "
— Dave, 12/15/2013" nothing happens in this book. ever. "
— Gayle, 11/24/2013" Interesting look at how one remembers life may not be what actually happened. "
— Mara, 11/11/2013" I savored this book for his sense of a person's history; how we remember and how we chose to remember. But in the end, I didn't care about the characters - I understood, but didn't care. "
— Aunt, 9/17/2013" I found Tony's rambling a a little irritating, but the story kept me interested and atleast it didn't drag on. I enjoyed the twist at the end, and am still pondering the outcome after finishing the book.. "
— Melissa, 6/23/2013" Loved the way this story rolled around... and I learned about the Severn Bore and other tidal bores to boot! "
— Maria, 6/12/2013" Interesting twist in the tail. The interwoven theme of the inaccuracy and bias of memory an individual level for the narrator and a societal level for the historian is nicely highlighted. "
— Mark, 2/7/2013" I'm not quite sure what all of the fuss is about from Amazon reviewers. The author writes brilliantly but I just didn't connect with the narrator or the story. "
— Jess, 1/19/2013" Read this for my book group. It was a great discussion so I think it makes a good book group book. But the characters were not developed enough. I did not get anymore engaged in this than I would have in a short story in Good Housekeeping. "
— Canyon401, 11/10/2012" Only just made 3 stars. "
— Regina, 10/28/2012" Different. Tony was pretty self-absorbed. "
— D, 10/27/2012" Beautiful prose and a cautionary tale about how even the best-intentioned people can be oblivious and ego-centric. "
— Daphne, 8/23/2012" A great , quick read. Have to read it more than once though "
— Cheryl, 7/17/2012" This is an excellent book. It is so rich in material about human nature, perspective and memory. A wonderful book for discussion. "
— Toni, 7/6/2012" My partner absolutely loved this book. Yes it was good but for some reason didn't really do it for me. "
— Michele, 5/31/2012" This book left me cold, maybe because the unreliable narrator is cold. I finished it to make sure I would not miss some dazzling turn in the story that would make the book sing. I did not, and it did not. "
— Leslie, 2/23/2012Julian Barnes is the author of numerous novels, as well as several books of short stories and collections of journalism. In addition to the Man Booker Prize, his other honors include the Somerset Maugham Award, the Geoffrey Faber Memorial Prize, the E. M. Forster Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters; in France, the Prix Médicis and the Prix Femina; and in Austria, the State Prize for European Literature. In 2004 he was named Commandeur de l’Ordre des Arts et des Lettres by the French Ministry of Culture. His work has been translated into more than forty languages.
Simon Vance (a.k.a. Robert Whitfield) is an award-winning actor and narrator. He has earned more than fifty Earphones Awards and won the prestigious Audie Award for best narration thirteen times. He was named Booklist’s very first Voice of Choice in 2008 and has been named an AudioFile Golden Voice as well as an AudioFile Best Voice of 2009. He has narrated more than eight hundred audiobooks over almost thirty years, beginning when he was a radio newsreader for the BBC in London. He is also an actor who has appeared on both stage and television.