From the inimitable Anne Tyler, a rich and compelling novel about a mismatched marriage—and its consequences, spanning three generations. They seemed like the perfect couple—young, good-looking, made for each other. The moment Pauline, a stranger to the Polish Eastern Avenue neighborhood of Baltimore (though she lived only twenty minutes away), walked into his mother’s grocery store, Michael was smitten. And in the heat of World War II fervor, they are propelled into a hasty wedding. But they never should have married. Pauline, impulsive, impractical, tumbles hit-or-miss through life; Michael, plodding, cautious, judgmental, proceeds deliberately. While other young marrieds, equally ignorant at the start, seemed to grow more seasoned, Pauline and Michael remain amateurs. In time their foolish quarrels take their toll. Even when they find themselves, almost thirty years later, loving, instant parents to a little grandson named Pagan, whom they rescue from Haight-Ashbury, they still cannot bridge their deep-rooted differences. Flighty Pauline clings to the notion that the rifts can always be patched. To the unyielding Michael, they become unbearable. From the sound of the cash register in the old grocery to the counterculture jargon of the sixties, from the miniskirts to the multilayered apparel of later years, Anne Tyler captures the evocative nuances of everyday life during these decades with such telling precision that every page brings smiles of recognition. Throughout, as each of the competing voices bears witness, we are drawn ever more fully into the complex entanglements of family life in this wise, embracing, and deeply perceptive novel.
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"Had to read A Patchwork Planet in high school. Had fond memories of her writing style, and "The Amateur Marriage" doesn't disappoint. She is excellent at demonstrating the influence that inertia, perhaps even more than initial circumstance of a choice, has on the state of our lives."
— Irene (4 out of 5 stars)
“[Her] writing is beautifully accurate, more often than not with a glinting vein of humor.”
— New York Times Book Review“She evokes the entire sweep of [a marriage] with uncommon delicacy and dignity…[She] gives us the feeling of being inside Michael and Pauline Anton’s marriage.”
— St. Louis Post-Dispatch“This ‘wickedly good’ author has come to represent the best of today’s American literature…She is an exquisite chronicler of the everyday…Her characters are at once infuriating and endearing, conservative yet quietly eccentric.”
— Observer (London)“Her command of what will move a story forward and engross a reader is faultless.”
— Baltimore Sun“She expertly explores the perils of marriage…Wise and observant…She has the uncanny ability to expose the most confusing contradictions of love.”
— Miami Herald“Unlike many writers treading similar ground, Tyler does not sneer at such domestic heartache, nor does she infuse it with gothic doom. Instead, she depicts Michael and Pauline’s marriage with simple realism.”
— Philadelphia Inquirer“Tyler straddles expertly the line between commercial and literary fiction, so that her characters and their circumstances appeal for the widest possible audience. She has keen sense of both humor and pathos, and when to employ the right one in the right measure. Her characters are thoroughly three-dimensional. They are our own families; they are ourselves; and it is our own desperate desire to understand the people we love, as well as the people who hurt us and whom we hurt, that keeps us reading with fervor.”
— Boston Globe“A rich and satisfying addition to the author’s distinguished body of work.”
— Chicago Tribune“Tyler is an unsurpassed commentator on the subtle entanglements of relationships.”
— Harper’s Bazaar“With piercing psychology, gentle humor, and poignant understanding of how deeply people who can love each other hurt each other, Ms. Tyler sets her story against quick evocative sketches of the decades as they pass…At the top of her craft, not a jot pretentious, she continues to write about real people with real problems in language anyone can understand.”
— Richmond Times-Dispatch“It is Tyler’s particular genius to capture life at its most mundane, then redeem it with a poignant humanity; to reveal the callousness of her characters, then peel back the layers to where the feelings lurk…Tyler has once again shown us our limits, along with our capacity for transcending them.”
— St. Petersburg Times“A wonderful character study illustrating the problems that, to some degree, afflict every marriage…Tyler’s genuine story appears seamless as it progresses over a period of sixty years. The author possesses that rare ability to capture the essence of human disappointment, and combines disparate characters with an ordinary subject, propelling it with wry humor and impassioned feelings.”
— Desert Morning News“Yes, Tyler intuitively understands the middle class’ Norman Rockwell ideal, but she doesn’t share it; rather, she has a masterful ability to make it bleed…The range and power of this novel should not only please Tyler’s immense readership but also awaken us to the collective excellency of her career.”
— Publishers Weekly (starred review)“So smart, so sensitive, so readable and engaging.”
— Kirkus Reviews" As she always does, Anne paints a lovely portrait of quirky Baltimore characters, and leads us into their lives. I love her books because she writes about places that I recognize, and I nearly always find myself in at least part of the story. This one did not disappoint! "
— Michele, 2/12/2014" Classic Anne Tyler. Not her best but well worth reading. "
— Tim, 2/7/2014" Well written but generally quite depressing. I had the vague feeling I'd read it before--I probably have. "
— Polliwog, 2/2/2014" Almost as good as Breathing Lessons, which won a Pulitzer. I urge friends to curl up with anything by Anne Tyler. "
— Susan, 1/31/2014" Unsure about this peticular book of Tyler. I have no idea of where the title comes to the book. "
— Joyce, 1/30/2014" A thought-provoking, reflective picture of a marriage: it effects on the two involved and on their children and grand-children. "
— Arden, 1/25/2014" I liked it. It was a quick and easy read with characters one could relate to. "
— Karin, 1/17/2014" Excellent. moving, ordinary lives, things going wrong. One my faves by her. "
— Maria, 1/15/2014" I tried to like this book. Really, I did. I normally love everything Anne Tyler writes. But this one, not so much. The main characters were self-involved, selfish, whiny. I didn't sympathize with them much, it fact, I didn't really care for any of them. A first for me with Anne Tyler. :-( "
— Holly, 1/13/2014" This book was an eye opener for me. It really made me think about marriage and the what if's. I won't ever forget it. "
— Cami, 1/1/2014" first anne tyler i've read and found it pretty enjoyable. she has a good handle on human nature. "
— Candace, 12/28/2013" One of the two best books I've read this year! Loved it! "
— Patty, 12/25/2013" Mostly well-observed family saga with pessimistic look at "opposites attract" marriages. "
— Dragana, 12/8/2013" She does it again! i just LOVE to read Tyler. "
— Mrs., 11/17/2013" Author was recommended and I've seen a lot her books on award and favourites lists etc but this just seemed too depressing. Good account of bad decisions and choices, but it hasn't made me want to read more "
— Karen, 6/27/2013" Killjoy. Not an uplifting story would be to put it mildly. A good story though - just drawn out and drenched in mopi-ness. "
— Jenny, 3/23/2013" This book is absolutely amazing. Poignant. Love it. "
— Erin, 3/13/2013" I am a big fan of just about everything Anne Tyler writes. This is my favorite. "
— Lily, 2/5/2012" Anne Tyler falls in the category of guilty pleasure. I enjoy reading/listening to her tales; I don't find them profound. She writes often of couples that can't/won't connect, don't understand each other, are truly mismatched. And that is the story here, too. "
— Diana, 11/30/2011" I love Anne Tyler! During a low time in my life I soaked her up and loved her quirky but heart-rendering women characters. "
— Melanie, 7/2/2011" picked this up in a 'free' box on the street, we'll see how it goes! "
— Katie, 6/15/2011" The book was well-written, obviously. And the basic plot was appealing--just the story of a life--several lives--from the time they met. It didn't seem to have a point, though. It was understated, although the events were sometimes dramatic. At the end, there wasn't a clear resolution or moral. "
— Patty, 6/7/2011" everytime i picked this up it felt i had was sleeping with prince vallium "
— Fab, 5/27/2011" A realistic, but pretty depressing look at marriage in the middle of the 20th century. The characters are not very likable; it ends up looking like the history of one unremarkable family. "
— James, 5/24/2011" This book was an eye opener for me. It really made me think about marriage and the what if's. I won't ever forget it. "
— Cami, 5/7/2011" This is one of my favorite Anne Tyler books. The story is captivating, serious but funny, a study of human nature and relationships. An easy & enjoyable read. "
— Kathy, 4/27/2011" This book was ok.....it took me forever to read...thanks to grad school. "
— Erica, 4/25/2011" i liked it. quick engaging read. "
— Marsha, 4/21/2011" I didn't really like the charachters in this book and the story was a bit boring... "
— Katie, 4/5/2011" If you’ve read The Time Traveler’s Wife, the marriage between Michael and Pauline feels at times, like the marriage between Henry and Claire. I imagine The Amateur Marriage is what Henry and Claire’s relationship could have been like, if they were the same age. "
— Ashley, 4/2/2011" This book is well-written and captures the time periods it covers beautifully. I just found the book to be so depressing, I'm not sure I'd read it again. "
— Laurel, 3/11/2011Anne Tyler is an American novelist, short-story writer, and literary critic and considered a major figure in American literature. Her novels have earned a Pulitzer Prize for Fiction, the National Book Critics Circle Award for Fiction, Amabassador Book Award, London Sunday Times Award for Literary Excellence, among other awards, and several have been New York Times bestsellers. Her novel The Accidental Tourist was made into an Academy Award-winning motion picture in 1988. She was was born in Minneapolis, Minnesota, grew up in Raleigh, North Carolina, and now lives in Baltimore, Maryland, where many of her books are set. She is a member of the American Academy of Arts and Letters.
Blair Brown is an award-winning narrator and a Tony Award–winning actor. Besides earning several AudioFile Earphones Award, she received the prestigious Audie Award for Best Fiction Narration in 2020. She has appeared on Broadway, in film, and on television in numerous miniseries and TV movies and received five Emmy Award nominations for her starring role in The Days and Nights of Molly Dodd.