They were the most prominent American family of the twentieth century. The daughter they secreted away made all the difference.
Joe and Rose Kennedy’s strikingly beautiful daughter Rosemary attended exclusive schools, was presented as a debutante to the queen of England, and traveled the world with her high-spirited sisters. And yet, Rosemary was intellectually disabled—a secret fiercely guarded by her powerful and glamorous family.
Major new sources—Rose Kennedy’s diaries and correspondence, school and doctors’ letters, and exclusive family interviews—bring Rosemary to life as a girl adored but left far behind by her competitive siblings. Kate Larson reveals both the sensitive care Rose and Joe gave to Rosemary and then, as the family’s standing reached an apex, the often desperate and duplicitous arrangements the Kennedys made to keep her away from home as she became increasingly intractable in her early twenties. Finally, Larson illuminates Joe’s decision to have Rosemary lobotomized at age twenty-three and the family’s complicity in keeping the secret.
Rosemary delivers a profoundly moving coda: JFK visited Rosemary for the first time while campaigning in the Midwest; she had been living isolated in a Wisconsin institution for nearly twenty years. Only then did the siblings understand what had happened to Rosemary and bring her home for loving family visits. It was a reckoning that inspired them to direct attention to the plight of the disabled, transforming the lives of millions.
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"It seems the only thing that I had heard about Rosemary was that she was "retarded" and "an embarrassment"...so she was hidden away. A great work that reveals so much about the person who lived through her challenges. It is sad, but there is some joy too as she continued trying. Another tragedy of the oversell of lobotomies as being a panacea for all things mental. I can't imagine the heartbreak of her father after he pushed through on this decision, only to find out it left her in a worse situation. It was nice to discover that Joseph continued to provide and visit with her. The stories that I'd always heard related how she was shut away and abandoned because she wasn't upholding the Kennedy image. I would highly recommend this book as educational about other things than only the Kennedys and as a fine performance."
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