In How to Think More About Sex, de Botton argues that there is a dissonance between what we think is normal and what we experience in real life during sex. Sometimes we don’t feel what we think we’re supposed to be feeling. This book examines the implications of desire, lust, commitment, and love, claiming that these things are all a precarious balancing act. This smart, thought-provoking exploration offers readers insight into the sex that they are—or are not—having. Download and start listening now!