Getting Off: One Womans Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction Audiobook, by Erica Garza Play Audiobook Sample

Getting Off: One Woman's Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction Audiobook

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Read By: Joy Osmanski Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio Listen Time: at 1.0x Speed 4.50 hours at 1.5x Speed 3.38 hours at 2.0x Speed Release Date: January 2018 Format: Unabridged Audiobook ISBN: 9781508248941

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Longest Chapter Length:

67:12 minutes

Shortest Chapter Length:

46 seconds

Average Chapter Length:

29:27 minutes

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Publisher Description

A courageous account of one woman’s unflinching and ultimately hopeful journey through sex and porn addiction.

A fixation on porn and orgasm, strings of failed relationships and serial hook-ups with strangers, inevitable blackouts to blunt the shame – these are not things we often hear women share publicly, and not with the candor, eloquence and introspection Erica Garza brings to Getting Off.

What sets this courageous and riveting account apart from your typical misery memoir is the absence of any precipitating trauma beyond the garden variety of hurt we’ve all had to endure in simply becoming a person ― reckoning with family, learning to be social, integrating what it means to be sexual. Whatever tenor of violence or abuse Erica’s life took on through her behavior was of her own making, fueled by fear, guilt, self-loathing, self-pity, loneliness, and the hopelessness those feelings brought on as she runs from one side of the world to the other in an effort to break her habits —from East Los Angeles to Hawaii and Southeast Asia, through the brothels of Bangkok and the yoga studios of Bali to disappointing stabs at therapy and twelve-steps back home.

In these remarkable pages, Garza draws an evocative, studied portrait of the anxiety that fuels her obsessions, as well as the exhilaration and hope she begins to feel when she suspects she might be free of them. And yet there is no false or prepackaged sense of redemption here. Even her relationship with the man she will ultimately marry seems credibly, painfully rocky as it finds its legs with several false starts. Erica’s increasing sense of self-acceptance and peace by journey’s end feels utterly earned, and absent of recovery platitudes.

In exploring the cultural taboos surrounding sex and porn from a female perspective, Garza offers a brave and necessary voice to our evolving conversations about addiction and the impact that Internet culture has had on us all.

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“What makes the book tick is that Garza’s ability and talent as a storyteller. She’s a well-known essayist on this subject, and she is able to mine the depths of magic and mystery that makes sex what it is….Painfully open and vulnerable. This memoir succeeds as the best memoirs do.”

— New York Journal of Books 


  • “A riveting, can’t-look-away memoir of a life lived hard-core…A wild, timely read.”

    — Elle magazine
  • “Takes the reader through a very intimate journey of self-discovery and acceptance.”

    — Roar magazine
  • “This confessional memoir is peppered with statistics about porn use and sex addiction, and Garza’s pull-no-punches style will twinge the sympathies of even the most prudish.”

    — Booklist

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About Erica Garza

Erica Garza has spent most of her adult life traveling and living abroad. Her essays have appeared in Salon, Narratively, Bust, Marie Claire, Good Housekeeping, Refinery29, Bustle, Alternet, Vivala, HelloGiggles, the Los Angeles Review, and Australia’s Mamamia and The Motherish. She has appeared as a guest on BBC Radio 4, Thom Hartmann’s The Big Picture, and August McLaughlin’s Girl Boner Radio. In 2010, she earned an MFA in creative nonfiction at Columbia University.

About Joy Osmanski

Joy Osmanski, theater, television, and film actress, is an award-winning audiobook narrator who has won three AudioFile Earphones Awards. She graduated from Principia College with a degree in creative writing and received her MFA from UC San Diego.