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Read By: David Rakoff Publisher: Random House Audio Listen Time: at 1.0x Speed 1.67 hours at 1.5x Speed 1.25 hours at 2.0x Speed Release Date: July 2013 Format: Unabridged Audiobook ISBN: 9780385392914

Quick Stats About this Audiobook

Total Audiobook Chapters:

30

Longest Chapter Length:

08:12 minutes

Shortest Chapter Length:

13 seconds

Average Chapter Length:

05:06 minutes

Audiobooks by this Author:

4

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Publisher Description

From the incomparable David Rakoff, a poignant, beautiful, witty, and wise novel in verse whose scope spans the twentieth century

Through his books and his radio essays for NPR's This American Life, David Rakoff has built a deserved reputation as one of the finest and funniest essayists of our time. Written with humor, sympathy, and tenderness, this intricately woven novel proves him to be the master of an altogether different art form.

LOVE, DISHONOR, MARRY, DIE, CHERISH, PERISH leaps cities and decades as Rakoff sings the song of an America whose freedoms can be intoxicating, or brutal. 

The characters' lives are linked to each other by acts of generosity or cruelty. A daughter of Irish slaughterhouse workers in early-twentieth-century Chicago faces a desperate choice; a hobo offers an unexpected refuge on the rails during the Great Depression; a vivacious aunt provides her clever nephew a path out of the crushed dream of postwar Southern California; an office girl endures the casually vicious sexism of 1950s Manhattan; the young man from Southern California revels in the electrifying sexual and artistic openness of 1960s San Francisco, then later tends to dying friends and lovers as the AIDS pandemic devastates the community he cherishes; a love triangle reveals the empty materialism of the Reagan years; a marriage crumbles under the distinction between self-actualization and humanity; as the new century opens, a man who has lost his way finds a measure of peace in a photograph he discovers in an old box—an image of pure and simple joy that unites the themes of this brilliantly conceived work.

Rakoff's insistence on beauty and the necessity of kindness in a selfish world raises the novel far above mere satire.  A critic once called Rakoff "magnificent," a word that perfectly describes this wonderful novel in verse.

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Reading the new novel in verse by David Rakoff, you can hear his voice again, wordy, so witty, a little worried, and always wise…..His mordant humor, his compassionate vision, his moral questioning, his sharp honesty, they’re all intimately wedded to the meter and the zestful diction of the book…..But the new direction he takes in “Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish” brings out the best in him, too, as he fits his voice into a tighter form without ever becoming a slave to that form. He is as vital, as blackly comic, as bursting forth with detail, as vernacular, and as poignant in metered verse as he is in his effortlessly long prose sentences. Each couplet here equally serves the structural rules, the story, and Rakoff’s matchless sensibility….The narrative is ambitious and has sweep…Agile, vivid, and entertaining

— Boston Globe 

Quotes

  • “The literary rhythm captures the steady momentum of American progress….poignant….beautiful and melancholy….with a final image that made my eyes well up….funny and heartbreaking and, like Rakoff himself, not easy to forget.”

    — Entertainment Weekly
  • "An extraordinarily and deliriously entertaining work....hearfelt, charmingly profound....[a] giddy, wistful triumph

    — Paul Rudnick, The New York Times Book Review“Suffused with joyful invention. Readers may come to the book to pay their respects, but they will leave rejuvenated by the splendor of the warmth and wordplay. Composed a hand-span’s distance from death, it feels death-defying….irrepressibly funny, and even strangely uplifting, in jubilant verse….If this book must serve as his memorial, it’s at least as life-affirming as any that a writer has left behind
  • Sly, bravura....a marvel of gamesmanship, Mr. Rakoff describes hardship, illness, death and depravity, knowing how ingeniously his book’s style and substance would fight each other....gift for balancing truth telling and humor....future readers can turn to this book to remember why he was so widely appreciated and is sorely missed

    — Janet Maslin, The New York Times 
  • The literary rhythm captures the steady momentum of American progress….poignant….beautiful and melancholy….with a final image that made my eyes well up….funny and heartbreaking and, like Rakoff himself, not easy to forget

    — Entertainment Weekly, A
  • Ingenius, delicately haunting…..probing, poignant, and wickedly funny….illuminate[s] the many stages of life

    — O Magazine
  • It’s terrific: a sweeping narrative of the 20th century that encompasses personal tragedy, family secrets and broad social movements while going down as easy as a bite of crème brûleé

    — Gregory Cowles, The New York Times Book Review
  • Even at six vivid verbs, the title doesn’t do justice to the breadth of this short, acrid, elusive, entrancing book.

    — Bloomberg"Inspired...accessible, delightful....powerful.... alluringly designed by Chip Kidd and illustrated by the cartoonist Seth, is filled with the sly, sharp social commentary that made Rakoff such a favorite....What shines through in this novel, even more than in his nonfiction, is a piercing, wistful appreciation for life, love and art....deserves to become a classic.....a rare bird: moving, amusing, lilting, crushing.
  • I just marveled at his words….What he’s created in this book is Seussian

    — Ira Glass, in an interview with O Magazine
  • “Beautiful and heartbreaking....delightful.... hilarious and lewd and shot through with a longing for life

    — New York Times
  • A novel in rhyming couplets narrated in iambic tetrameter? Why not?... Along the way, you can have a lot of fun, no matter how serious the subject — family, sometimes alienating, sometimes consoling — because of the rhymes. Rakoff makes such pairings as virago and Chicago, ceases and paresis, skittish and Yiddish, antelope and envelope, horas and Torahs, Alzheimer's and climbers, for 100 cleverly rendered and entertaining pages.

    — Alan Cheuse, NPR.org
  • [A] tour de force novel-in-verse....It is hard not to feel celebratory over its heart-singing smarts, its existence as a fist raised against a life ending. What melancholia is there is confined to its characters — it’s a triumphant, moving work of true craft and wit.

    — Austin American-Statesman"Truly singular....There is so much bound up in the novel's singsong verse: stories about AIDS and Alzheimer's, altruism, art, lives linked together by buried incidents that spring up again to bear unexpected fruit.
  • [A] marvelously barbed novel in verse.

    — Elissa Schappell, Vanity Fair’s “Hot Type
  • Mesmerizing....Combines his wit and his gravity....Astounding

    — Publishers Weekly
  • A fitting memorial to a humorist whose embrace of life encompassed its dark side....[the book] retains a spirit of sweetness and light, even as mortality and inhumanity provide a subtext.....Strong work. It deepens the impact that this was the last book completed by the author.

    — Kirkus Reviews
  • “Ingenius, delicately haunting…..probing, poignant, and wickedly funny….illuminate[s] the many stages of life.”

    — O, The Oprah Magazine
  • “Suffused with joyful invention. Readers may come to the book to pay their respects, but they will leave rejuvenated by the splendor of the warmth and wordplay. Composed a hand span’s distance from death, it feels death-defying….irrepressibly funny, and even strangely uplifting, in jubilant verse….If this book must serve as his memorial, it’s at least as life affirming as any that a writer has left behind.”

    — Wall Street Journal
  • “[A] marvelously barbed novel in verse.”

    — Vanity Fair
  • “It’s terrific: a sweeping narrative of the twentieth century that encompasses personal tragedy, family secrets, and broad social movements while going down as easy as a bite of crème brûleé.”

    — New York Times Book Review
  • “Beautiful and heartbreaking....hilarious and lewd and shot through with a longing for life.”

    — New York Times
  • “What shines through in this novel, even more than in his nonfiction, is a piercing, wistful appreciation for life, love, and art....deserves to become a classic.....A rare bird: moving, amusing, lilting, crushing."

    — NPR
  • “Truly singular...There is so much bound up in the novel’s singsong verse: stories about AIDS and Alzheimer's, altruism, art, lives linked together by buried incidents that spring up again to bear unexpected fruit."

    — Atlantic
  • “Reading the new novel in verse by David Rakoff, you can hear his voice again, wordy, so witty, a little worried, and always wise…..His mordant humor, his compassionate vision, his moral questioning, his sharp honesty, they’re all intimately wedded to the meter and the zestful diction of the book…The narrative is ambitious and has sweep…Agile, vivid, and entertaining.”

    — Boston Globe
  • “Rakoff’s performance is a treasure. He knows exactly where the stresses should be and is a deft and artful actor as well as writer. That his voice is sometimes soft and his delivery etiolated at points is explained by a brief, moving interview recorded with him and included at the end. I can’t wait to listen to it again. Winner of AudioFile Earphones Award and a 2014 Audies finalist.”

    — AudioFile
  • “Mesmerizing…Combines his wit and his gravity.”

    — Publishers Weekly
  • “Rakoff…brings his thoughtful and tender perspective on life to this wonderfully funny yet heartbreakingly sad novel-in-verse. Throughout this rhyming novel, he crosses decades, telling the great American story through memorable characters loosely linked by acts of kindness or callousness…Each chapter serves up a slice of life’s victories, discoveries, cruelties, and casualties…This novel begs to be read aloud in the mode of Rakoff’s frequent and popular radio appearances on NPR’s This American Life…Fans of the award-winning author will embrace with particular appreciation this final lesson on how to accept life’s blessings and blows.”

    — Booklist
  • “A fitting memorial to a humorist whose embrace of life encompassed its dark side…[The book] retains a spirit of sweetness and light, even as mortality and inhumanity provide a subtext…Strong work. It deepens the impact that this was the last book completed by the author.”

    — Kirkus Reviews

Awards

  • A Barnes & Noble Best Book of July 2013
  • An AudioFile Editors’ Pick in July 2013
  • A New York Times bestseller
  • A Publishers Weekly bestseller
  • A Los Angeles Times bestseller
  • One of the New York Times Book Review 100 Notable Books of 2013
  • Finalist for the 2014 Audie Award for Best Narration by the Author
  • Winner of an AudioFile Earphones Award

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About David Rakoff

David Rakoff (1964–2012) was a Canadian-born writer based in New York City who was noted for his humorous, sometimes autobiographical nonfiction essays, including New York Times bestsellers. He was an essayist, journalist, and actor and a regular contributor to the radio program This American Life and for GQ magazine. He also wrote for Outside, Vogue, New York Observer, and Salon, among others.