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Download She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Audiobook (Unabridged)

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4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 4.00 (591 ratings) (rate this audio book) Author: Ian Kerner Narrator: Ian Kerner Publisher: HarperAudio Format: Unabridged Audiobook Delivery: Instant Download Audio Length: Release Date: February 2005 ISBN:
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As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: What do I do? Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.

Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay: simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.

She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.

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Listener Opinions

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Lisa | 2/17/2014

    " I'm giving it four stars for the author's writing style and intelligent, precise, yet warm manner of instruction. Dr. Kerner taught me things I didn't know about my girly bits; imagine what this knowledge could do for the SO in your life--and, in turn, you ;) He even includes three different scenarios to add variety to your repertoire. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Marco Machado | 2/8/2014

    " This is definitely one of those books that everyone should read (gals included, even if they're not the target audience). Dr. Kerner does a pretty incredible job at describing both female sexual physiology and the social stigmas involved in their sexuality, which is still applicable today (shame on Freud). While the second half of the book, involving procedural techniques, is one that I can't speak on or review, the psychology-related topics in the first chapters of the book are both eye-opening and fascinating reads that would certainly help any person learn how to better communicate with their female partner in a likely less offensive manner. Generally speaking, a highly recommended self-help book for enhanced pleasure and understanding with communication. "

  • 1 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 51 out of 5 Meghan | 1/31/2014

    " This book wasn't very useful. I didn't really read anything here that wasn't aware of already. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Brianne | 1/28/2014

    " Not as good as Sue Johanssen says. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Derek | 1/14/2014

    " It's not that this bk is useless, but the whole "thinking man's guide" thing is bunk. This bk is written at the San Francisco Chronicle reading level. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Michelle | 1/13/2014

    " great info for the fella in your life that needs a better road map to your body..............so let's face it ladies that's all of them:) highly recommend giving to your man that is if his ego isn't so huge that he thinks he knows everything about your body. Oh hell give it to him anyway it might get him to realize he doesn't know. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 McKell | 1/5/2014

    " This should become required reading for ALL men at an early age! "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Becky | 1/2/2014

    " Lots of info on the Female body. Not so sure I would like everything he talked about.. The first 2/3rd or 3/4th of the book had good info. Didn't really care much for the how to part, but it may help some. Never hurts to learn more about yourself or your Lady's Body. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Kim | 12/30/2013

    " I rate it as a 4 - Could move to a 5 if we implement this!! "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Andrecrabtree | 11/5/2013

    " Learned a few things that I'll try when I get a chance. "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Janet | 10/12/2013

    " Looks like an interesting read, but now is not the time for it. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 sadako | 10/9/2013

    " there is nothing more sexy than seeing your partner getting off. That being the case, and being and ignorant man at the time, this book came in handy. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Palominosaurus Lecturopitecus | 10/3/2013

    " Every man and woman can benefit from Reading this book. Wether You are into oral sex or not. Some of my patients have found it instructive and validating. Sharing it with a partner can break the ice in an otherwise uncomfortable topic for some couples, heterosexual or not. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Eileen | 5/16/2013

    " I read this thing in one sitting and it was glorious. I'm holding off on the 5-star review until I try all that stuff out. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Daniel Namie | 4/7/2013

    " All those guys out there having women troubles ought to read "She Comes First" and all you problems will be solved. Learning and educating yourself about the female body is an empowering and life-long tool. Pleasing your woman with a orgasm and she will love you for the rest of your life. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Alejandro Hernández | 11/3/2012

    " It should be essential reading for any man. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 Sarah Louise | 10/17/2012

    " Every straight man needs to read this book. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Joris Wils | 4/12/2012

    " Very useful. Much increased my confidence, knowledge and ability "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 David Soderberg | 3/23/2012

    " A good combination of technique and literary/artistic writing. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 matthew | 6/18/2011

    " Skip to the techniques, read multiple times if necessary. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Daniel Noventa | 4/3/2011

    " There's no need to be selfish, gentlemen. Very serious and informative book on pleasing your ladies. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 joel | 10/6/2010

    " Definitely an interesting read. I did not necessary love the author's writing style, but it was very informative. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Katey | 8/28/2010

    " I don't think the 4-star rating need be elaborated upon. BUT overall this an interesting read, with a different perspective and truthfully, I actually learned some things. So women should read it too. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Kim | 2/28/2010

    " I rate it as a 4 - Could move to a 5 if we implement this!! "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 David | 12/1/2009

    " It works! Take you time with this book and cunnilingus and you will be rewarded. "

  • 4 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 54 out of 5 Alejandro | 8/12/2009

    " It should be essential reading for any man. "

  • 5 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 55 out of 5 McKell | 6/30/2009

    " This should become required reading for ALL men at an early age! "

  • 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5 Carli | 4/22/2009

    " This is the Kerner book touching on female sexuality but it is really about cunnilingus. Pretty exhaustive, actually, and had some good information. It has very specific cunnilingus routines, for those who are interested.

    Heh heh, I'm blushing a bit as I write about this. "

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About the Author
Author Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.