" I want to like this book--from the descriptions it seems that it describes my lifestyle pretty well. But 50 pages in, I'm not liking it much at all. Sorry, but using the word "paradigm" several times on the very first page is not a way to hook readers. Right now it's reading as a mildly interesting book appearing on a course syllabus, which I can only read a few pages at a time without falling asleep. The author IS a professor, which could be why it has that feel. It's short on actual examples of people's lives and long on complicated thoughts and sentences. The most interesting part so far is when he describes how is own wife ignores their child -- even when he has wet his bed and needs to be comforted by mom -- in order to keep working through all hours of the night. I keep waiting for him to mention his divorce but it appears that he doesn't think anything is wrong with his wife doing that because it's reflective of current societal norms. I'll give it one more chapter before it's reduced to "skim only" status. If it were from the library I'd probably be skimming already.
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Update: Yep, it got reduced to skim-only! But I did finish it at least. "
— Melissa, 2/13/2014