Do you know someone who is overly arrogant, shows an extreme lack of empathy, or exhibits an inflated sense of entitlement? Do they exploit others, or engage in deluded thinking? These are all traits of narcissistic personality disorder, and when it comes to dealing with narcissists, it can be difficult to get your point across. So, how do you handle the narcissistic people in your life? You might interact with them in social or professional settings, and you might even love one—so ignoring them isn't really a practical solution.Now a self-help classic, Disarming the Narcissist is a practical, step-by-step communication guide to help you cope with and confront the narcissist in your life. Based on fan feedback, this fully revised and updated third edition features new information on shame, hypersexuality, and infidelity in narcissism; legal information to help you if you are divorcing a narcissist; and the impact of narcissism on children.With this how-to guide, you'll learn how to separate yourself from a narcissist's traps, and gain the respect and validation you deserve—while side-stepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments with someone who is at the center of his or her own universe. Finally, you'll learn how to set limits with your narcissist and when it's time to draw the line on unacceptable behavior.
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"Very good book! Good for dealing with narcissists, and other difficult and/or selfish people. Also just a good psychology book to help learn more about yourself and your habits and reactions to others." — Amylia (5 out of 5 stars)
"Very good book! Good for dealing with narcissists, and other difficult and/or selfish people. Also just a good psychology book to help learn more about yourself and your habits and reactions to others."
" Very good- some good tips. "
" If you are trying to figure out the narcissist in your life, you'll go back to this again and again. "
" I found this book to be very practical in dealing with narcissistic people. "
" I have read a few books on narcissim. This one is interesting and explains why someone may be narcissitic. It gets into some deeper psychological discussions that make reading a little heavy. Other books I have read are not as heavy as this one "
" Good introduction to schema theory of psychology. "
" This book was a little over the top physcho babble but it did give me a good overview of how to try and deal with my neighbour the narcissist. This book does not make me very hopeful that I'll be very successful. "
" Ok but did not live up to it's title - didn't really provide ways of dealing with self-absorbed people. "
" There are some helpful cognitive therapy techniques, but I found the stories hard to relate to, and the focus on couples a little bit narrow. "
" Good as far as it went, readable - kind of short on disarming tips. "
" This book was very enlightening! "
" Very useful and insightful read! "
" An easily accessible book for dealing with narcissistic people. Nice explanation of schemas and schema theory as well as how to take care of yourself when dealing with narcissists. "
" Meg. Too much inner-child stuff. A few good ideas. "
" A good read. Not as informative as I hoped, but there are some good strategies. If you are into personality disorders, I suggest The Sociopath Next Door. "
" Also a recommmendation. Extrememly helpful and practical. "
" Great ideas about how to communicate with narcissists and how to assert your own needs and prevent the resentment that builds up in relationship with the narcissist in your life. "
" not as helpful as i had hoped... "
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