" This might be cheating, but I honestly skipped over some sections of this book. I probably skimmed / read 80% of it. I gleamed what I needed (inspiration, some practical ideas, a kick in the pants) and skipped over the rest. I was inspired to do what I always knew in the back of my mind that I should be doing: I gave my children more independence and responsibility to do what they can do for themselves. Or sometimes what they can do for the whole family, or sometimes (selfish mother moment), what they can do for me. Does that make me horrible? I don't think so. I do things for them every day, because that's how it is in real life for every decent human being: you do things for others without promise of immediate reward. Can my 7 and 10 year old take stock of what we have in the fridge / freezer and plan a meal they want to make (with my help)? Yes. Can they learn how to wash clothes (again, with supervision, because I want my clothes to keep fitting me)? Yes. Can they wipe down the sink, tub, and toilet, in that order? Of course. And why shouldn't they? This book lit a fire under me to not let my young kids grow up to be the selfish, entitled teenagers that adults can not stand. "
— Barbara, 1/14/2014